My best friend and I are close, but we don’t always talk about sex. So when she recommended the Drusilla tongue vibrator to me, I couldn’t pass it up. I know she has struggled for years with her partner in the bedroom, and so when she let go that she found a clit sucking toy that changed her life, my interest was clearly piqued. 

I ordered from V for Vibes, because obviously, I trust other women to tell me what feels good. I always appreciate a woman-owned sex toy company. I feel like they know women’s bodies best, and I’ve been consistently pleased with what I’ve received from them. Like always, my package arrived discreetly, which is great because I don’t always like my mailman to know about my interest in tongue vibrators. I was so ready to unbox and check her out. 

I love the attention to detail in unwrapping a sex toy from V for Vibes. The satin-lined box, the sexy black drawstring storage bag- honestly, it’s just the little things that sometimes make us feel like royalty. I also like that I can use them for storage later. 

The toy itself is a sexy black number with smooth curves and a slight ergonomic bend. I’ve long since outgrown the cheap neon pink rubber sex toys of yesteryear. Drusilla is sleek and modern. While I don’t normally go around displaying my clit sucking toys for all my guests, if someone happened to see this one, I wouldn’t be embarrassed. The tongue vibrator is made of medical-grade silicone that feels soft to the touch even without lubrication. From experience, I know that these work best with water-based lubricant and keep that sexy, soft feeling while you’re playing. 

The Drusilla is a clitoral sucking vibrator in addition to a more traditional clit and G spot vibrator.. The toy integrates different means of pleasure. One side is a typical vibrator- the standard delightful buzz women across the globe have come to know and love. But the other side works to strategically use air suction to mimic the feeling of oral sex. If you’ve read up at all on vibrators, you’ll know that this is a newer class of sex toys for women. I was thrilled to try it out and have my own personal tongue vibrator at my disposal. I also really appreciated that the Drusilla offered both options, so I could get two toys for the price of one. I value a large collection of sex toys, but I also appreciate having a toy that can do two jobs for the price of one. 

When I went to play, I decided to start with the clit and G spot vibrator part of the toy first. I immediately appreciated the Drusilla’s shape in my hand. I liked that it was longer so I could use the other side of it as a handle of sorts to reach my intimate spaces. My arms easily reached where they needed to get the vibrator in the places that felt best. The vibrator end offers a wide tip that does a great job of making contact with all my favorite erogenous zones. I hate when vibrators are too small to actually do much of anything, and the Drusilla did not disappoint there. The broad tip nearly mimics the shape of some of my favorite Hitachi wands I’ve used before in size and width. If you know about the vibrating pleasure of a Hitachi, you know this is an excellent shape for vibrating play. 

When I was ready, I used some water-based lube on the other side and decided to flip her around. The clitoral-sucking vibrator part truly blew my mind. I definitely understood what my friend had been talking about. When I say my eyes nearly bulged out of my head when I got Drusilla situated on my clit, I’m completely serious about this tongue vibrator. I don’t think I have ever in my life experienced a pleasure so intense and all-encompassingly mind-blowing. It felt like the best oral sex of my life- perfect pressure, perfect consistency, perfect spot- like if my partner just got me over and over again with their best cunnilingus move. The lube wasn’t entirely necessary, but it did a great job of replicating the feeling of actual oral sex. 

Frankly, I’m almost embarrassed to admit how little time it took me with the Drusilla tongue vibrator to reach an orgasm my first time using it. Never in my life have I gone from zero to orgasm in such a short duration. I completely surprised myself that a quick orgasm was even possible. I’ve since come to play with the toy more, and I’ve actually had to learn some tips to slow down my orgasms for once- a skill I haven’t had to cultivate before. I’ve come to enjoy edging myself by making myself really excited with the clit sucking toy before reversing it to the vibrator side to take the intensity down. Flipping it around like this has led to many extended solo sessions. The result of this consistent oscillating between insane intensity and gentle buzzing leads to my newly patented “can’t keep my mouth shut; it feels so good” orgasms. While the Drusilla itself may be quiet and discreet, the pleasure it gives isn’t subdued. Especially after using both sides of this toy, I nearly need a nap after every session because my orgasms are so intense.

Like any sex toy, when I was confident, I shared the experience with my partner. We both liked how hands-free it ends up being. The tongue vibrator really allows itself to be nestled into your folds and can stay put while hands wander and engage with one another. I shared my fun turn-taking edging game with my partner too, and they thought it was fun to be in charge of my orgasms like that. If you want to play around with insertion, you can as well. The vibrating side works well to push inside and get some G-spot stimulation- another fun way to extend the pleasure. 

When finished, I thought I was going to hate having to clean up the Drusilla’s crevices, but it really turned out to be not so bad. I used gentle soap and a Q tip to get inside the suction tip, and she was good as new. While the pleasure is intense, it doesn’t actually seem to be that large of a suction hole to manage during clean up after all.  

Like most high-end sex toys, the Drusilla clit and G spot vibrator uses a USB charger as opposed to batteries. I always appreciate that I don’t have to worry about not having batteries with my sex toys, so that is great. 

Overall, I have to agree with my friend and call this tongue vibrator a “must buy” for any woman out there. I could totally see how this toy could be used to give first orgasms to those who have struggled before to reach that moment. And for those of us used to orgasming, it still gives a dynamic experience that is worth repeating over and over again. A clitoral sucking vibrator should truly be in every woman’s collection.