What is a Threesome? And the Different Kinds of Threesomes.

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Sex toys, sex in a public place, blindfolded, handcuffed, or even a little chocolate to lick with sensual food play: there are endless and terrific ideas for having fun in the bedroom; something to satisfy absolutely everyone and every sexuality! 

However, threesome sex is on the top of the charts of the craziest and most desired fantasies of all genres. So if you really want to know what is a threesome and the different kinds of threesomes that exist, keep on reading!

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What is a Threesome?

Before we dive into the different kinds of threesomes, let’s start with the basics: what is a threesome? 

Its definition is quite simple: three people have sex together, to their delight, a practice born for different reasons and in different contexts. Some couples see it as an opportunity to spice up their lovemaking after a certain period of time spent together; others indulge in it out of curiosity as a unique experience, and for some, as a way to explore other genders.

It is possible to have a threesome in several configurations. These trios will work out the same in practice, but each has its preferences when it comes to setup. 

No one threesome is better than the others; it all depends on your fantasies!

The Different Kinds of Threesomes

Lesbian threesome 

A lesbian threesome is when three women meet to have sex together.  

Oral is very important when it comes to a lesbian threesome. However, this is not the only way to make love. They have fingers, sex toys, the scissor position, and many more. But regardless, oral sex is often the staple. 

In fact, it is rather rare to meet a lesbian who wasn’t passionate about the art of going downstairs with her tongue (or receiving!). And, to be honest, most women are really amazing at it. So if you’re a woman that’s interested in trying a lesbian threesome, just imagine how much oral you’re going to get and give from it two lustful tounges waiting to please you. 

If you’re still wondering what is threesome sex for lesbians, it is simply three women at the same place having sex together, providing equal stimulation to one another, and to summarize, nothing can top this!

FFM threesome

« I like threesomes with two women, not because I’m a cynical sexual predator. Oh no! But because I’m a romantic. I’m looking for “The One.” And I’ll find her more quickly if I audition two at a time. »   Russell Brand

Men’s favorite kind of threesome, female-female-male (FFM), as the idea of two women is more attractive most of the time, simply because there is no competition and he can feel like a true superhero in the moment. Two women lusting over a man’s body and his cock is the marvelous, ultimate male-fantasy. 

But do take it easy. It is good when the man lets the women run the operations (unless it is a BDSM-inspired game in which the man is “the Master”). Make foreplay last, and take your time enjoying the wide range of sensations. And remember: everyone must find pleasure and reach an orgasm, so never leave anyone out. 

Many women enjoy having their partner take care of someone else. As for the extra one, she gets excited at the idea of being invited into the privacy of a couple. We are both voyeurs and exhibitionists during this scenario, sometimes even a little touch of “dominated” submissives. 

A FFM threesome will allow one to satisfy their voyeuristic, exhibitionist, and bisexual inclinations. Not to mention the fact that it is very convenient to have a friend ready to take over should you want to take a little break!

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MMF threesome

Male-male-female, because two men are better than one!

The dynamic a MMF threesome creates is quite alluring: there is no time to be bored! 

As a woman, you can do several things simultaneously, such as getting pounded blissfully from behind in doggy style while giving a blowjob to the person in front of you. 

The configurations are quite rich, and it is very intimate and very hot.

If you wanna go for it, our only advice is to be inclusive, let yourself go, and let yourself be surprised by the magic of the moment. Enjoy it, even if nothing goes as planned.

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Interracial threesome

An interracial threesome occurs between people of different races.

Shemale threesome

Seeing breasts and a man’s sex organs fascinates a lot of people. This is why shemale porn is so prevalent. So then, what is a threesome with shemales? 

Well, it is the same as any other threesome, but with three shemales as the subjects. As well as this, it can be a threesome of any genders involved, as long as one of the participants is a shemale. 

Cuckold threesome

A cuckold threesome is a sexual practice in which a person makes love with an outside person under the excited eyes of their official partner. The key to a cuckold threesome is that the ‘cuck’ can only watch- they are generally not allowed to play until after the first has finished. 

Many couples find this practice satisfying, generating emotions and improving the joint sex life. It is nevertheless necessary that it is an agreement and that the two parties agree freely, without pressure of any kind, and without being obliged to do it to please the other party.

Things To Consider, No Matter What Type of Threesome

It’s well known that when there are two of us, things are twice as good, so imagine what it would be when there are three? 

Three, as in a “threesome”! 

Two guys for one girl, two girls for one guy, or even three of each… The options are endless. 

There are as many motives as there are fans of this practice. Curiosity, openness, confidence in oneself and in others, adequate communication, ability to adapt, respect for others, and previously agreed on rules are qualities more than required in the participants of the threesome, whether officially as a couple or not. 

Now that you know what a threesome is, is it a good idea to make your fantasies come true? Sometimes the adventure is much better in our head than in reality. On the other hand, if you are one of those who make their wishes come true, here are some tips to make sure everything runs smoothly, and be sure to check our blog “Should I Have a Threesome?” if the question still itches in your mind. 

Open-mindedness 

You have to be aware of what a threesome entails. It is about sexual intercourse involving 3 people. If you are in a relationship, you have to be okay with seeing your partner have sex with another person and vice versa (Depending on the rules established at the start of course!). Thus, jealousy could very well be present, and this is why it is absolutely necessary to make sure you have transparent discussions on the subject to make sure that everyone is really comfortable before the clothes come off. 

To Protect Yourself

It’s essential! Just as in any type of sexual relationship, condoms or other forms of protection are a must.

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Be Free. 

It may be that by experiencing a threesome tripe, you actually enjoy the reality of the fantasy and love the experience. You may also be disappointed with your experience, or even be neutral. 

No matter how you go through this experience, know that your emotions are valid, even if they are not the same as they started out. Try to see it as an experience that teaches you to recognize what you like and what you don’t like. You can also talk about it with your partner afterward to see how he/she /they experienced the experience as well, and to see if you want to relive it again in the future. 

Regardless of the reasons for taking the act, the practice should be carried out only if both members of the couple are genuinely consenting. It is vital to carry out the experience with respect for yourself and for others. Doing it under duress can have dramatic consequences for the life of the couple and the person who forced him/herself into the practice.

 

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