Sexual preferences differ among women. However, while every woman is unique, there are a few things we all agree on!
Even if you are not that kinky, chances are your brain is. When it comes to arousal and orgasm, the brain is often underestimated.
For people who have been in a relationship for a long time, sharing your fantasies can give a boost of desire. Whether shared with a partner or reserved for your solitary pleasures, weird sex can be truly fantastic.
Sexual fantasies are not only normal, but they can allow us to spice up one’s sex life and to explore our sexuality from the safest space of all: our imaginations.
While some fantasies – such as having sex in an unusual place – are widespread, others are much more reserved. Whatever it is, your sexual fantasy probably isn’t as out of the ordinary as you think it is. To find out what women fantasize about (and who doesn’t?), I’m here to tell you about the sexual fantasies that will send you and your partner on a journey of endless and mind-blowing pleasure. Happy reading and good fantasy!
If you are in a new relationship, these weird sex ideas are not off-limits at all, just be sure to communicate them to your partner ahead of time. If you communicate with them and you’re on the same page … There is no limit to what the two of you can experience. Here are the huge benefits of trying new things and fulfilling those sexual desires you’ve only dreamed of:
- Huge release of accumulated sexual tension. When you can satisfy your sexual desires, you feel more relaxed, more accomplished, and more confident.
- Build a much stronger relationship with your partner! These sexual ideas require trust, communication, and a strong bond with your partner to be carried out safely.
- Leave nothing to chance. How can you tell if a sexual fantasy will lead you to the most powerful orgasm of your life if you don’t try it!?
“Life is too short to have boring sex.” It’s time to seek maximum pleasure and share this experience with someone!
Ok, so let’s talk about some weird sex bucket list ideas!
These ideas only concern relationships of trust, committed, very open, with communication and consent. It is important, if you are going to try out any of these weird sexual ideas, that you communicate it verbally to your partner (s) first. So let the fun begin! Here are the best weird sex ideas to try if you’re up for the challenge.
Voyeurism is the idea of involving others in your sex life. You can enjoy watching your partner have sex with another person or seeing them observe you during foreplay and sex with another person. It can be very exciting watching your partner knowing that you can’t touch and stimulate yourself or just enjoy the show! However, trust is an important element here, so, understandably, this isn’t the case for everyone!
Public play :
Try to engage in foreplay or whatever turns you on in a public or semi-public environment. It’s not exactly legal, so use your judgment wisely. Nevertheless, she can wear a skirt without panties, use a discreet butt plug, or even a vibrator controlled by a phone. Let your partner control the vibrations when you go down to a public place!
Virtual Public Play :
Some couples get off when knowing that others are watching. You can do it from the comfort of your own home by streaming videos online for others to watch your kinky sex! Be aware that once online, even streaming, it can be made public for everyone to see. This is why many couples choose not to show their faces in videos or pictures.
Weird Sex Clubs :
Sex clubs can be a lot of fun. Sex clubs are often designed like typical nightclubs, with space for socializing and dancing, but usually include more private spaces with beds and other naughty accessories for sex play. Find out about the sex clubs that exist near you and consult them if you are interested.
Weird Sexual Role Play :
Live out your deepest, darkest and dirtiest desires with your partner! Have you ever had weird fantasies? tell your partner about them! Load up all the sex toys you might need … And get started!
Weird role-playing ideas might be:
Being a victim of blackmail
To have sex with a stranger you just met at the bar.
To have your innocence corrupted by someone very experienced …
Edge Play :
Build it up to orgasm then stop. Let it relax and rebuild it. You can do this multiple times … It depends on how you want to tease them. When you finally let him relax, it can be a whole-body experience, giving him a very long-lasting and extremely intense orgasm!
Double Penetration :
This is where she can use both her anus and her vagina. This can be done with two men, two sex toys, or a man and a sex toy. These multiple forms of stimulation simultaneously lead to mixed orgasms.
Prostate Play :
When you give your man a prostate play orgasm, it’s 33% more intense than your standard orgasm thanks to penile stimulation. Why? because the prostate causes orgasms throughout the whole body that last longer and can be repeated one after another, instead of requiring a period of rest.
Try quality anal beads, increase the pleasure and use the prostate to play with a partner. Penetrate them while you have a butt plug-in for more pleasure!
The first thing you need to know about this weird and kinky idea is that some find spanking incredibly hot and arousing, while others don’t enjoy it at all. It all comes down to personal preferences. With that in mind, I hope you have at least experienced it.
If you are playing a sex game with your man/women, and they fail a task or you caught them doing something mean/forbidden, then you might want to punish them with a spanking. You can tell them to get on all fours or stand and place their hands against the wall or even lean over a table.
A great way to inflict your willpower on your man/women more is that when you spank them make them count every hit.
Make Oral Sex Kinky :
An easy way to do a hot blowjob or cunnilingus is to do it in a place that’s out of the ordinary.
Here are some ideas :
– In a car (make sure you don’t break the laws!)
– In a truly breathtaking location, think on top of a mountain or cliff, on a beach, or anywhere with incredible views.
– In an empty room at a party.
Degradation And Humiliation :
Degradation and humiliation can be incredibly kinky IF (and that’s a big IF), you both enjoy this kind of game and respect each other’s limits.
So what do I mean by degradation and humiliation?
Here are some ideas :
– Being slapped.
– Having your hair grabbed (painfully) and led by your man.
– Being kept in a confined space such as a cage.
– Being required to wear a collar and/or a leash.
– To be seen as something derogatory. Think of names like whore, slut, bimbo, slave, etc.
– Being “forced” to do embarrassing things in public…
Weird sex is not the same for everyone. Some want to be extreme, others just want to be a little more adventurous. We have covered a few basic and extreme ideas above that are more common.
In the end, only you know exactly what you desire the most. This is what you dream of, this is what you fantasize about. The next time you find your mind wandering, pay attention to the details. These details are important to piece together your fantasy. These little details can turn average sex into an explosive sex fantasy!
It’s up to you and your partner to find these hidden gems deep within yourself. Do you have a sexual fantasy that you haven’t seen on our list? Want to share it? Drop us a comment below!