There are fetishes for literally all kinds of things. We could talk all day about the varying manifestations of this integrated aspect of sexuality, but this time, we’re going to focus on the tongue fetish.
And what is that, I hear you ask? Well, exactly as you read it: a fetish for tongues! Specifically, people tend to have fetishes for long tongues. And when we say fetish, this could range from looking at sexy photos of someone poking out their tongue to engaging in sexual activities using the tongue.
Why the tongue?
If you think about it, the tongue is one of the most sensual parts of the body. We use it when we kiss, we use it to lick our lips seductively without even knowing it, and of course, we use it during oral sex. So because the tongue is known for giving pleasure, it’s no wonder that people have a fetish for it!
You can find all kinds of tongue fetish videos online, from the girl-poking-her-tongue-out video to hardcore and ethical porn focusing on the tongues of the stars. There’s something out there for everyone! Of course, if videos aren’t your thing, you can always just indulge in physical activities … read on.
How can I incorporate my tongue fetish into sex?
The odds are that if you have a tongue fetish, you already use your tongue quite a bit in the bedroom. However, if you’re new to the world of the tongue fetish or maybe your partner has a tongue fetish, and you want to know how you can please them with their fetish in mind, here are some tips:
- Kiss with the tongue: Most of us do this naturally anyway, but next time you kiss your partner French-style, really put your passion into your tongue and see what happens. Sparks may just fly!
- If it’s your partner who has a tongue fetish, any time you use your tongue, go slowly. Seduce their mind with the way your tongue moves and licks. Also, don’t just go straight in for the blow job or vulva licking. Although this might be the thing that literally blows your partner’s mind, try to get creative with using your tongue elsewhere on their body before you head to penis or vagina land. Every inch of their skin will become a place of pleasure when your wet tongue gently caresses it, so their entire body is your tounges canvas! Take some time to learn about erogenous zones, and lick them all over.
- Eat something seductively in front of your partner, or get your partner to eat it in front of you. If you have a tongue fetish, there’s nothing sexier than watching your partner lick a food item: think lollypops, ice cream, whipped cream, chocolate spread… sexy foods. Want an even better idea? Lick it off them! Food play is ideal for those who also have a tongue fetish.
- Oral sex: During oral sex, try focusing only on licking with your tongue instead of other movements, such as the ‘back and forth’ on the shaft or sucking with the lips. It’s about the tongue, baby! Watching your tongue pleasure them visually as they lean back and feel that delicious licking sensation will be enough to drive them crazy.
- Send them a sexy video of you using your tongue in any way that turns them on; this could be a video of you licking your lips seductively or licking some ice cream. Bonus points if you send it to them while they’re at work. Horny, anyone?
How to give a tongue fetish blow job
Oral sex can be one of the best parts of sex. It’s someone’s mouth and tongue on your genitals, after all! So without further ado, here’s how to give the best oral sex for guys with a tongue fetish.
- Start by kissing them. Start with their lips and move your way down their body, adding in a lick of the tongue here and there. You get extra points if you look into their eyes as you lick their skin.
- Caress their skin. As you move around their body and use that magic tongue of yours on them, don’t forget to give them a little bit of a massage with your hands as you go. Everyone loves to be pampered – especially during oral sex.
- Head down. When you’ve warmed him up nicely, go down to his penis and start massaging him there. Look into his eyes and lick the very tip when he is hard, showing as much of your tongue as possible. Next, lick his shaft from the bottom to the head, taking your time and showing as much of your tongue as possible. This ought to get him really horny and eager for more! Repeat the strokes of your tongue while cupping his balls. Only put him in your mouth when he is practically begging you for it. Until then, focus on long licks along the shaft and flicks of the tongue on the tip.
- Take your time running your mouth up and down his penis. Every couple of minutes, alternate with licking his penis seductively; really showcase that tongue and what it can do! Then move your mouth back down on his penis. Keep going until either he has had enough or he orgasms. You could always stop just before he orgasms to keep him in denial … What could be better than adding a touch of edging to fulfill their tongue fetish? Yeah, not much!

How to give tongue fetish cunnilingus
To go down on a woman, you can pretty much use the same process as listed above, except, of course, the genitalia is different. Follow Step 1 to 2, worshipping her body with your caresses, your tongue, and your mouth.
Then when she’s ready, move down to her vulva. The trick here is to do everything gently and slowly to build up her arousal. Don’t go from zero to one hundred! Listen to her breathing and her responses; you’ll soon know when you can speed up or when you need to slow down. Anticipation is your ally.
- Put a pillow underneath her butt and gently pull her legs apart to give you more access and to lift her pelvic muscles for better access and sensation.
- Start off slowly. Holding her thighs open, go in with your lips. Kiss her labia without your tongue, going from her mons pubis to her vaginal opening. Then tease her with the tip of your nose, breathing in her scent. Watching someone inhale your scent is super sexy. And the slight pressure on her labia will stimulate the clitoris below. If you want, you could turn your face to the side and kiss her inner thighs too.
- Next, lick her from her vaginal entrance up to her mons, only just delving between her labia. Don’t go all the way in. Look her in the eyes if you really want to drive her crazy.
- Next, with your thumbs, gently pull her labia open and repeat the same licking action as before, going deeper this time. Repeat this a few times or as many times as your girl suggests she needs. You’ll soon hear feedback from her.
- Vagina action: The next time you go down to her vaginal entrance, insert your tongue into her. Alternatively, insert a finger and pump into her a few times. Using a finger is a good option here because then you can use your mouth on her clit for dual stimulation. If she tells you she doesn’t want any penetration, listen to her. Sometimes it’s all about the clit for us women.
- Focus on the clitoris: Once you’ve heightened her arousal, it’s time to focus purely on her clitoris. Lick the clit once or twice to tease it out of its hood (if it hasn’t come out already), and then put your mouth over it and start licking it in a constant rhythm, going slow at first and then going faster when she’s ready. Every now and then, alternate the way you lick her clitoris – but don’t alternate it every five seconds because we women need constant stimulation; if you keep changing it, it’s like we have to start from the drawing board all over again.
- Be patient and enjoy. For some women, it can take time to orgasm. So set up camp down there and don’t stop until she either orgasms or tells you to stop. Tip: Don’t see her orgasm as the ultimate goal; sometimes, we women, for whatever reason, just cannot orgasm. All that matters is that she has an amazing time, and she gets to experience that sexy tongue of yours.
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