The Many Ways to Use a Strap-on.

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Strap-ons offer an alluring variety of sexual sensations to discover in the bedroom, and for all genders alike, a strap-on is one of the best sex toys to have a little extra fun while getting down and dirty!

Although it might seem that using a strap-on is relatively straightforward, there’s a heck of a lot of different ways that this exhilarating toy can showcase to you the epitome of climax. The more you experiment with one, the more you will learn these fulfilling benefits for yourself. 

So wait no more, as we’re going to highlight the many different ways that a strap-on may be utilized within a wide range of sexual settings, and to showcase to you that a strap-on just might be your sex toy collection’s next best choice. 

What is a Strap-on?

We won’t spend long here, but if you simply do not know what a strap-on is, let’s fix that. 

A strap-on is a harness-like device that a phallus-shaped dildo is attached to. The harness/belt is strapped to the waist of one partner, and the dildo sits in a position very similar to a penis. This creates the ability to use the strap-on for penetrative dildo sex controlled by the thrusting movements of the hips. 

Usually worn by women, and particularly well like by lesbian couples, a strap-on can also be integrated into a heterosexual relationship and may even be worn by a male who sufferers issues of possible erectile dysfunction, small penis size, or premature ejaculation. 

For those who enjoy the sight of a penis, including the size, girth, and other small details, you might choose a dildo that is a real-life replication of one to attach to your strap-on. And for those who do not, there are plenty of available options that do not replicate a penis in terms of looks and instead are smooth, rounded, and far less realistic. 

Overall, a strap-on presents multiple choices in customization of sizes, shapes, and materials used. 

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The Different Ways to Use a Strap-on

Strap-ons are pretty versatile, so let’s get into some of the different ways to use a strap-on based on your sexuality and relationship status. 

Lesbain Pentrative Sex

Penetrative sex for lesbian couples is one of the significant uses of a strap-on. Many women require some form of penetration to reach orgasm, and a little pounding here and there feels excellent regardless. 

Using one’s hands to direct the motions of a dildo can become tiresome, and a strap-on will allow one partner free realm of their hands so that they can trust with their body instead. This promotes a more realistic penetrative scenario that may also be complemented with holding tightly onto the waist, spanking, hair pulling, kissing, or whatever else you enjoy, thanks to the ability to continuously use your hands. 

Pegging

For heterosexual couples, anal play to the male is often something that they often shy away from. But if you’re one of the lucky ones who has discovered just how intensely wondrous anal stimulation feels to the male, then a strap-on might just be the next step for you to take. 

Pegging is the act of a strap-on -wearing female penetrating the male from behind. 

Not only does this showcase to the male the orgasm-inducing effects of prostate pleasure, but it creates a sense of dominance for the female that many couples absolutely love, and she will find intense pleasure in being the one in charge. 

Many men relish being submissive, and placing their hands and knees on the ground in doggy style is the perfect method for letting all barriers break and fully succumbing to their partner’s control as she mounts them from behind. 

Oral Sex

A strap-on doesn’t just have to equal penetration, as they are also excellent tools in promoting role play. One version of this would be to practice oral sex. 

Penile oral sex can be replicated for a bisexual female when in a female-female interaction. She who wears the strap-on can enjoy the act of lightly pulling her partner’s hair and pushing to penis deeper into her throat as she sucks. 

Of course, there won’t be any sensation for the wearer, and this instead caters to the mental fulfillment of role playing and what it would be like to have a robust and hard penis to do as they wish. 

And for the males out there who wish to experiment with a little penis-oriented roleplay, by having their female partner wear a realistic strap-on, they can alas enjoy the act of providing oral sex to a penis. This is done in a manner that feels safe and comfortable to themselves and without pushing their boundaries; a great way to promote sexual discovery and cater to bisexual or gay tendencies. 

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Compensation

Some men simply aren’t as lucky as others, and as unfortunate as it might be, they might suffer issues within their ability to have sex. 

Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, small size, and an overall incompetence to perform well are a few of the potential issues at hand. 

Should this be the case for yourself and your relationship, a strap-on has provided a much-needed fix to some of these issues. 

Certain strap-ons can be worn over the male penis, and this provides them a way to continue their pounding without fear of early climax or inability to get it up. As well, a strap-on can add a much-needed couple of inches when the female involved wants something a little more, well, fulfilling, you might say and is a great way to promote satisfaction in the bedroom. 

Never be afraid to utilize the benefits of a strap-on in a heterosexual relationship if you are a male who needs a little extra help, and your partner will surely appreciate the fact that you are able and willing to go the extra mile and experiment with new things to please her. 

Double Penetration

For the couples who want to play around with a male-male-female threesome scenario and to feel the invigorating sensations of double penetration, then a strap-on might just be the only way to pull this off without bringing another human into the mix! 

For the females, some strap-ons feature two phallus attachments, with one sitting further below the other to make double penetration possible. Other strap-ons add an additional appendage below their real-life penis for the males who plan to wear them. 

For dual vaginal and anal sex and extreme amounts of pleasure, these styles of strap-ons are the single best way to showcase the feelings of double penetration. 

You might seek out and enjoy the physical sensations of DP. But there is also mental stimulation that arises with the idea of allowing your partner to have sex with someone else as you simultaneously please her, and this might excite you beyond all else. 

Interracial Sex

The dildo attachments to a strap-on are always customizable, allowing the opportunity to promote interracial sex. 

If you’ve been dying for a nine-inch, big black cock (BBC), then a strap-on can quite literally bring this desire right to life. 

Play around with different skin colors of your strap-on to experience the joys and sexual fulfillment of interracial sex, as many people are quite turned on by the simple idea of this alone, let alone the execution!

Facials or Creampies

Ahhh, the good ol’ jizzing strap-on. 

That’s right; some strap-ons do indeed feature the ability to mimic penile ejaculation with synthetic semen that very much looks and feels like the real deal. 

Suppose you desire the practice of a facial or to feel a big, pulsating penis cum inside you to mimic a creampie without the fear of pregnancy or STD. In that case, an ejaculating strap-on is quite literally the best, most realistic way that you can pull this off!

As well as this, if performed in a male-female scenario, the male can have sex with you after the strap-on has climaxed to mimic and fulfill any fantasy of a cuckold you may have!

The Strap-on – A Summary

In the end, strap-ons are simply incredible. They allow for so much versatility and newfound pleasure in a sexual setting, both physical and psychological. Because of this, every couple should at least play around with one once!

A strap-on cares not about gender and not about sexuality, with the ability to customize them to reflect this better, and instead, the goal of a strap-on is simple:

To promote sensuality, stimulation, and orgasm through personal and couple-based sexual discovery. So go ahead, strap it on and have some damn fun discovering this endless range of goosebump-instilling benefits as your legs soon shake from one of the best climaxes of your life. 

You never know. A strap-on might just be your next favorite toy!

 

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