Generally, sissification refers to the feminization of males without their will or knowledge. The term was coined within the context of BDSM to represent a male submissive who was forced to undergo feminization or gender reassignment.
Typically, this effeminacy is done at the request of the dominant so that the submissive is forced into exhibiting feminine behaviors and dressing in a feminine manner. So a ‘sissy’ refers to a man who does not comply with traditional gender roles, similar to the male equivalent of a tomboy, although this term is a bit offensive.
Sissification also refers to the loss of hyper-masculinity in society.
Background History of Sissification
Being called ‘sissy’ a generation or two ago, when gender roles were strictly defined, was the last thing a man wanted to hear. Achieving masculinity was the ultimate goal for all males at that time. And any deviation from the standards of masculinity implied that the person was a pathetic weakling, a failure at being masculine.
However, nowadays the situation is somewhat different. We live in a female-dominant society where masculinity is seen as more toxic and dangerous than virtuous and heroic. So some men are going out of their way trying to earn the privilege of being called a Sissy. And for this purpose, they willingly put themselves through a physical and systematic process of psychological self emasculation referred to as ‘Sissification’.
It can also be defined as forced feminization, and according to Wikipedia, it is the practice of encouraging or training a submissive partner to act in a feminine or exaggeratedly feminine manner and dressing the submissive partner as a female.
If this submissive partner is male by birth, he may be called a Sissy.
Sissification and Transgenderism & How To Be a Sissy
Being a transgender is different from being a Sissy because transgenders do not choose to reverse the process of being a woman, and they go by a gender other than their birth gender.
Unlike popular notions about being transgender, a sissy isn’t a woman, nor do they identify as a woman.
He is a man who has consciously volunteered to have his masculinity destroyed, given a choice that if he doesn’t go too far in physically altering himself, he can always reverse the process. He’s undermining his true gender identity, nor does he wishes to seek it, and this erotic humiliation gives him a sexual thrill.
There is always a misogynist aspect to sissification at its roots because there is always something weak and humiliating about acting like a woman.
Changes to Transform into a Sissy
It takes a lot of changes to transform into a Sissy, including both mental and physical ones.
The first thing it takes is a sheer determination for the process. The physical determinants of transformation involve things such as cross-dressing, laser hair removal, leg crossing, wearing makeup, using female cosmetics, and sitting down to pee like a woman.
It also involves adopting female mannerisms such as stepping daintily, swishing your hips, and arching your spine. You can also go to extremes like getting female hormone injections and even reassignment surgeries for sexual orientation, but that begins to lean towards being transgender.
The psychological determinants of transformation involve the utter destruction of your masculine identity. Sometimes people feminize their names too, like ‘Alex’ to ‘Alexa’ and ‘John’ to ‘Joanna’.
Erotic Hypnotism and Sissification
Erotic hypnosis also plays a role in sissification by controlling your mind and telling it to follow the dominant one unconditionally. A person is made to watch videos that glorify the admiration of giant cocks, which will develop an inferiority complex within the sissy that his penis is actually undersized.
He is constantly instructed to gain sexual gratification from prostate massage rather than penile stimulation and is trained to achieve orgasm in a feminine way by either being penetrated in the ass or by sitting on dildos.
An aspiring sissy is gradually brainwashed into having his manhood mocked and eroticizing the act of being sexually humiliated. He is constantly being reminded that he is turning into a sissy. So he may get sexually attracted to alpha males and become sexually repulsive by feminism and submission.
According to a professional sissy trainer, the process to inculcate the desire to be a woman starts with snuffing out their masculinity and proceeds with acts of classical conditioning.
They are pushed to find their true identity, which is supposed to be likewise. They are forced to do something feminine and to forget about their past identity. They are taken to that point by a mixture of hypnosis, psychological trickery, and leveraging the subject’s curiosity.
The secret is to help the subject see and accept all the amazing benefits of feminization slowly and gradually. A consistent conditioning method is used to reassure calm logic.
The subject starts to embrace more of his feminine side, and inevitably this grows a desire for a feminine body to match their new, improved emerging identity.
Techniques Used to achieve sissification.
A former self-identified male described how his girlfriend has sissified him systematically and overcame his initial resistance.
‘She equipped her collection with a strap-on that squirted, and then she would pump lube in my anus and tell me it was a special estrogen solution that would work its way into my system through my butthole. Then to make sure that the liquid is absorbed completely, she would insert a butt plug in me till I absorbed it. Honestly, I was loving all the attention and the unusual role play we were doing, and I couldn’t have been happier. She switched out the straight porn with gay porn, and every day she would only make love to me while I was watching the gay porn and telling her how much I wanted a cock in my mouth, ass, and both hands.’
This is a technique called operant conditioning in which a habit is developed by giving a reward for every small task related to what you want to achieve.
Backfires to Sissification
This technique has both pros and cons. There are often backfires to this sexual humiliation and deliberate taboo, leading to guilt, regrets, and shame.
The person becomes increasingly ashamed of himself, and every time he practices sissification, he thinks in his mind that it should be the last straw- that he should not continue doing this anymore knowing it would ruin his whole reputation and make him want to stay isolated in irrational fear that people will find out about it if he shows his face.
It’s like he develops an alter ego of ‘being a Sissy’, which all of these practices have encouraged so much, and can no longer handle it.
Sometimes sissies make up their mind to trash everything from clothes to dildos, butt plugs, etc; everything that only perpetrated this habit and addiction.
Some people know that they would wake up the next day in shock with what they had done. The feeling of regret is always with them. They could not bring themselves to leave their apartment and show their face again due to that irrational fear of losing their personality. Some men developing psychological problems as a result of chasing a sexual identity shouldn’t be surprising, as their sexual identity is based on humiliation and self-hatred, which is innately harmful in a climate that preaches masculinity.
Present-day Approaches to Sissification
Some men seek redemption and approval in the act of exhibiting their masculinity; however, now the culture has shifted to a point where being a Sissy is no longer the worst thing. These days being called manly may not be looked up to.
In other words, we have evolved, or you can say devolved (it’s up to you) to a point where a conscious choice can be made by sissy to be feminized.
Some Facts about Sissification
- Even this role play and fantasy can include begging to stop this process.
- There’s nothing wrong with being a Sissy as long as you are determined to accept the premises.
- Although this is only a fantasy, it depends on the idea that feminization is forced.
- Sissy prevents masturbation by wearing a chastity cage around his genitals. Sissification and fandom fantasies are different because in sissification, the person degrading them is usually a male rather than a female.
- Role-play in sissification also includes costumes like maid outfits and maid activities such as dusting and serving beverages.
- Unless there have been permanent physical and hormonal changes made, sissification can be reversible.
- Feminization in sissification is usually achieved by cross-dressing, ranging from just wearing female undergarments to fully dressing in hyper-feminine attire, including her dress, makeup, and nail polish.
- Some males take on roles and tasks that are overly feminine and adopt behaviors like female mannerisms and postures in tasks such as speaking, sitting, walking and acting, in a feminine manner.