If you want to create a newfound allure to your sexual relationship, then you can do so with only the power of your seductive words. Talking dirty adds an element to sex that allows the imagination to mesh with reality, as you can speak of all your dirtiest desires and direct the interaction in whichever way you so please. 

You might, however, be a little unsure of how to go about dirty talking, or intimidated that you do not know the right sexy things to say to your man to get him turned on and pulsing for more. 

How you talk dirty will of course be personalized to your own relationship and situation, just as we each have a favorite sex toy due to personal likings, but no matter what there’s always reliable and go-to sexy things to say that are guaranteed to create a sexual lust. We’re going to go over exactly how to best approach talking dirty and provide to you a huge list of sexy things to say to your man that will have him craving the taste of your skin. 

Sexy Things To Say Over the Phone

Dirty talking over the phone, including any form of sexting, is one of the best methods by which you can first approach this experience. Not only does sexting and the lack of face-to-face contact build desire and anticipation for more, but it is also one of the easiest ways to practice the art of weaving your words into sexy things to say. 

You can take the time to type out your sentences exactly as you please, and this acts as a wonderful means to further learn your partner and the intensity and types of dirty talk that seem to turn them on from afar. By practicing sexy things to say over text, you will more easily be able to carry this over into person-to-person interactions, so let’s get into some sexting inspiration.

Start early in the morning when he leaves by sending him a text, and continue it all the way until he is home for ample desire. 

1. “Today feels like a no underwear kind of day for me”
2. “Have a wonderful day at work, I’ll be waiting for you when you get back ;)”
3. “Come back home daddy”
4. “I have a question. If I play with myself today will you help me finish later?”
5. “I think I might go shopping today” & send him a link to an online adult store. 
6. “What should I wear today? Nothing?”
7. “Today is the kind of day where we should take off work and get a motel room. Handcuffs included.”
8. “If I’m a good girl today can I taste you later? Or maybe you can taste me?”
9. “I feel like you need to know that I am really f**king horny today. See you soon”
10. “You should spend your day thinking of bad things to do to me tonight. I mean really bad things”
11. “I’m on my second pair of underwear today. This is what happens while I wait for you”.
12. “Sneak away and send me a picture of your cock. I want it so bad”
13. “What would you say if I took a naughty video for you?”
14. “Let’s be wild tonight. Maybe I should be inside you for a change?”
15. “Do you think your coworker’s wife is as horny as me?”

Sex Talk Before Sex and During Foreplay

Whether you begin with sexting or not, talking dirty before your intercourse and during foreplay will continue to increase the sensuality and kinkiness of your current interaction, and this acts as a wonderful asset to turning one another on and creating a heightened level of desire before intercourse ensues. 

The best sexy things to say before having sex are those that hint at what you plan to do, using your voice as its own form of foreplay by instigating the dirtiest of imaginations within your partner’s mind until they can no longer take it and they wildly rip off your clothes. 

If you want to master this art of force foreplay, we got you covered! And remember, a little seductiveness to your voice and sweet whispers in the ear while you touch the outsides of his clothing or reach into his pants always makes this more effective and much sexier. 

1. “I almost touched myself today but I decided to wait for you instead”
2. “Did you miss me, daddy?”
3. “I hope I didn’t make you hard today, did I?”
4. “I took some naughty pictures while you were gone. Do you want to see them?”
5. “I need you to tie me up and pound me as hard you can”
6. “I played with my dildo today and thought about you. I didn’t finish though, can you help me with that?”
7. “I hope you have plenty of cum saved for my mouth, baby”
8. “My pussy is pounding for you. You should feel how wet it is”
9. “I either need to take my panties off or change them because they are soaking wet”
10. “If you don’t f**k me like your little slut then I’m going to take control tonight”
11. “I’ve been craving the taste of your cum”
12. “Do you want more? Tell me what to do. I’ll do anything”
13. “What if I told you tonight is all about pleasing me?”
14. “Let’s masturbate together before we f**k”
15. “Can I give your cock a little kiss, please?”

Sexy Things to Say While Having Sex

Eventually, desire and foreplay will win over and you will find yourself alas having sex, the anticipation of your dirty talk lending for some of the most intense and fulfilling of sexual relief. 

That doesn’t mean the dirty talk has to stop, though, and you can keep this going all the way through until your climax for adventurous and wild sex. 

While having sex, your mind will surely flutter away to the kinkiest corners of your mind as you ease closer to orgasm. The closer you get the hornier you become, and this horniness is sure to fuel your wild side. 

Whether you choose to speak on these sexual idiosyncrasies is entirely up to you and based on your relationship, but if you need a push in the right direction to get started, let’s get into some sexy things to say to your man while you are having sex! And then, should you so choose, you can always up the intensity of weaving your words to your liking. 

1. “I want your cum all over my body, baby”
2. “I’ve been such a good girl daddy, so now I’m going to be extra bad”
3. “I love your cock so much. Make it throb in me”
4. “I’m going to ride your face while I cum”
5. “Spread my cheeks while you pound me hard”
6. “Get on your knees and taste me right now”
7. “Lay down and don’t say a single word. I’m in control tonight, baby”
8. “If you don’t tie me up and f**k me like your slut then you’re in trouble”
9. “Don’t make me beg you to cum on me”
10. “I’m your slave tonight, daddy. Show me what you want to do to me”
11. “Touch my ass, please”
12. “I’m going to make you kiss my pussy after I cum”
13. “Your cock feels amazing. It’s so big and hard in me”
14. “Choke me while I ride you”
15. “This pussy is all yours, my daddy.”