• Spin the Wheel

If you want to know how to explore kinks, then find yourself an online program that will pick from a pre-entered list of words. Within this list of words, write out a handful of unique sexual practices or kinks you want to try. If you need some inspiration, visit our list of kinks. 

Spin the wheel, and whichever word it lands on is the subject of your sex! You have no choice but to follow through with the chosen kink, and this is the perfect means to let fate control sexual experimentation and discovery.

• The Kama Sutra

The Kama Sutra is the absolute best book of sex positions. This is one of those sex toy games that is simple yet a hell of a lot of fun. 

While getting down and dirty, flip through the book to choose a completely random page. Whichever page it lands on, you are required to try out the position for a few minutes of intense pleasure. 

And to make these positions even more erotic, since we’re talking about sex toys and games, try and incorporate your toys within the position. 

• The Homemade Gloryhole

Sex toy games allow you to experiment with kinks you otherwise might not wish to fulfill. This isn’t a game about competition and more so a game that forces you into new realms of sexual pleasure.

Simply create a homemade Gloryhole, and pleasure your partner from the other side for a unique take on ‘stranger sex. Take turns providing the pleasure, and if they come quickly, then you know they like it! You can even use a dildo to create a threesome experience as you both relish this make-believe scenario. 

• Take my Order

Sex toy games wouldn’t be complete without a remote controlled vibrator. Bring it along the next time you go out to eat. 

Make a bet with your partner; something like the loser is forced to provide oral sex until climax. When it’s time to place your order, turn the vibrator on. If they can place their order without tapping out, then they win. 

Will you go all out by turning it to the highest vibration speed on the chance of getting caught but winning the game, or will you keep it low with the chance of losing so that the waiter/waitress has no idea of your endeavors? 

• The Coupon Book

Each partner will create a ‘coupon book’ that includes specific instructions for a sexual act. Have fun using this as a way to experiment with things you have never tried before but that deep down, you want to give a shot; a great answer of how to explore kinks without feeling awkward or weird. You can turn in your coupons at will, and they guarantee that you have to do as the coupon says. 

Take turns with turning in your pleasure-based coupons, and remember, if it’s on the card, then you must do as it says. Do you trust your partner to keep things mellow, or do you expect them to manifest the dirtiest aspects of their imagination? You will soon see!

• Do or Drink

So, you want to know how to explore kinks or see if your partner is into the same kinks you are? Create different cards with various forms of sex-based truth or dare, making sure that they are kinky in nature. Have fun creating the cards together, as this is a great relationship-building tool. 

Once you’ve built up a nice deck of cards, it’s time to play! Pick from the deck, and you are forced to either perform the dare or answer the truth with sheer honesty. If you don’t, then the only way to get a pass is to take a drink. 

Will you end up naked in bed, or will you end up drunkenly stumbling into the sheets?

• 7 Minutes in Heaven

You probably remember this from high school, but with a touch of erotica, it can turn into one of the best sex toy games. For this, you’ll need at least a small collection of various sex toys. Bust them out, choose one, and then head into a dark closet for seven minutes. 

During this time in the dark, you have free range to play with your partner, using the sex toy to give them the epitome of sheer, orgasmic pleasure. Do it again with another of your toys until you can no longer take this wondrous form of extended foreplay. 

• Red Light Green Light

The next time you go for a drive, be sure to bring along your remote control vibrator for this version of sex toy games. As you drive along, anytime you hit a red light gives you the okay to turn up those vibration speeds. See if your lover can last the entirety of the red light. If they can’t, you get the point (the longer the red light, the better!).

As soon as it turns green, you must stop the vibration. If they make it all the way through, then they get the point. Whoever has the most points at the end of the drive is the winner, and the loser must do whatever they say as punishment. 

This is one of the best sex toy games to experiment with a touch of public play and light exhibitionism. If you want more ideas on how to use a remote control vibrator in public, then visit the linked blog!