So many people take sex so seriously – between Hollywood showing passionate, steamy sex, and the dream of being spontaneous and intense, we lose sight of the fin aspect! The reality is that sex can be silly, fun, and goofy at the same time. Are you looking to spice up your sex life? Consider playing sex games with your partner! Not only can they lighten the mood, but they can also take boring sex to wild and fun. The V For Vibes team has put together a few ideas to try in bed.
You certainly know, or have crossed in your life, couples who last and who have that spark of life in their eyes that gives us a glimpse that their sex life is still as good as at the beginning.
Maybe you are one of these couples?
If so, how can you keep this creativity alive for years to come? What are the little things that keep the spark alive?
Allow me to introduce to you one of the most important assets to a relationship’s sex life: Sex games!
Sex games are endlessly useful at all stages of a couple’s life. In the beginning, they allow you to discover yourself gradually and to get to know the other’s tastes, desires, and style in sexual matters.
They then allow you to innovate, find new ideas, renew yourself in your sexuality, always appreciate the intensity of sexual relations, and better understand yourself.
But don’t worry, even if sex games haven’t yet become an integrated part of your sex life, it’s never too late to learn new things about yourself or your partner.
Sex games can sometimes also have a therapeutic role; they help unblock in certain apprehension cases, guide us, and help us express ourselves and assert ourselves. They allow us to slip into someone else’s shoes for a bit of fun, and that feels dang good!
In today’s article, we’re going to give you as many ideas as you need to never run out of inspiration. There will be something for all tastes and for all needs.
The Best Sex Games According to V For Vibes
The Sex Dice Game
Casually, the naughty dice game sets the mood, and here is nothing better to raise the temperature. The concept is simple: roll the dice to choose the action (licking, stroking, etc.), duration, and chosen body part!
Sex dice are super easy to find online, or at a sex shop. Playing is as straightforward – roll the dice, and see what you have to do! One die will say things like “lick”, “play” or “suck”, and another may say things such as “penis”, “pussy”, or “toes”. This can really encourage you both to try things you haven’t ever before.V For Vibes sells the incredible Hera, as well as some other amazing options. Some are designed to go in the vagina, and others are butt plugs. Next time you’re going out with your partner, charge it up, put it in, and give your partner the remote. They get to control the remote and surprise you whenever they want. Bonus points if you can keep a straight face when the vibes start! This can be fun at the movies, out for coffee, or even looking at new cars.
The Treasure Hunt
Hide sex toys in several places in the house or apartment. Then, whenever your partner finds one, they should use it on you before they go looking for the next one.
A game that will allow new couples to discover each other by trying out ideas for sexual positions, and will also allow those who need a change to launch themselves into sexual challenges thanks to the hourglass, which will challenge you to change position very regularly.
This sex game is ideal if you arrive at a stage where you are confused about what to do next in terms of your love life. The timed aspect will bring a little frustrating side and, therefore, more exciting, because once the time is up, you will not have the right to continue, as it is up to you to manage this game as frustrating as it is fun!
Simply roll the dice, and perform the Kamasutra sex position of which it lands on within the set time frame!
Playing with words
Communication in sex is a must. We can not emphasize this enough. In addition to being an essential criterion for having the most pleasant time, talking can also raise the bedroom temperature and blood flow.
Do not hesitate to say what you feel, compliment the other, show what you like, guide, announce, and share … What is called “dirty talk” helps fulfill sexuality.
But there are other ways of using words, or more precisely, letters. For a little novelty, you can try by practicing cunnilingus or rimming and to write all the letters of the alphabet with your tongue!
Arm yourself with accessories
It is not so new as an idea, but it is nonetheless effective.
Sex toys help you reach new pleasures and experience new sensations, and you should absolutely capitalize on their orgasm-inducing sensations.
They are diverse and varied, and there is always something for everyone. From the simple dildo to the belt dildo, from the vibrating ring to the 50 Shades of Gray set … It’s up to you to choose what you like!
Can you keep it together when you’re experiencing pleasure? This sex game is fun and will test your patience. Find a vibrator with a wand head, like the V For Vibes Rhea. Take turns applying the wand to your most sensitive areas, or use the vibrating dildo side for the most fun. Answer trivia questions while you’re experiencing pleasure, and see who can get the most right with these distractions. Each correct answer is a point, and whoever orgasms first loses. Speaking of cumming first…
If you and your partner are great at getting each other off, this is an amazing game to try. Enjoy sex, work to get each other going, but whoever cums first loses! There can even be a punishment for more incentive to play hard. Picking the kids up from school for a week, eating the other out until she cums, or having to give a blowjob every day for a week add some great fun. If you and your sweetie are both particularly adept at orgasming, this is a fun sex game to try.
Far from being a rare practice, role-playing is both an entertaining and innovative form of a sex game.
It does not take much to stimulate the urge. Sometimes, just stepping into the shoes of a character can make the other person feel like a different person. And as novelty stimulates attraction and excitement, you will open a new path to pleasure.
Food Sex Games
Another solution to quite literally spice up your villainous hugs: just add food!
An accessory that is not too expensive, disposable, and which will make certain sensual gestures even more pleasant. For example, to lick the body of your other half, what is better than a little whipped cream?
If you prefer salty, there is also the Samantha Jones method in Sex and the City that covered her body in sushi.
As long as it’s a little bit sultry, food helps make foreplay (even more) erotic. Perfect for those who have never known how to choose between food and sex.
The Tongue Hanging Out
Your partner is completely naked, lying on the bed (or wherever you want). Gently place your tongue on his stomach and wait for his instructions: he will guide you by telling you “down more, up, to the right, to the left” … All without taking your tongue off his skin.
Awake your senses
Your partner lies down naked. Blindfold him.
Then, have him taste foods (strawberries, chocolate, champagne, whipped cream, candy, etc.) and make him guess what it is while petting him and whispering sweet words to him. Again, if he guesses correctly, he’s entitled to a treat; this time not related to food this time!
Gift for Immediate Use
Everyone has a gift for the other to use or wear once opened. Put your gift on the bed, open it, and make good use of it … We think, for example, a nightie, a sex toy, condoms, etc.
Anything to force a little flair into your sex in the form of a thoughtful and appreciated gift.
The “Truth or Dare” Sex Game
With hot questions and daring challenges, this game will allow you to rekindle the flame, get excited, and learn more about yourself and your partner sexually.
Enough to increase your complicity and clear taboos!
This classic game is way more fun in bed. Ask your partner to choose truth or dare – truth is a sexy question. Try things like “What’s your fantasy in bed?”, or “What position have you always wanted to try?”. Dare is all off the table- dare your partner to masturbate on you, or to watch you get off without touching you. The sky is the limit, and fun lubes or toys can really spice this up.
30-day Challenges to Increase your Bond
Everyday action is to be carried out with your partner to awaken you sexually without going through the penetration box!
It is ideal for couples who need a boost for their libido or for couples who are discovering themselves and those who do not yet dare to take action and wish to discover themselves step by step.
It is also a great way to free yourself from the fears and apprehension of the first time or from postpartum sex!
Erotic Scratch Cards
Like hot cards, naughty scratch cards are also very popular. In short, there is nothing better to spice up your romantic evenings. You will discover a thousand and one ideas for foreplay or positions to carry out by simply scratching the small bubbles.
The Essential Strip Poker
Even though strip poker is “old as the world,” it is still one of the most popular erotic games.
All you need to do is have a classic card set and go through the classic card games. Over time, the losers will take off their clothes.
In the end, the person who finds himself naked has lost! This is still the best way to let go. Forget preconceived ideas and try new experiences with your partner.
Bondage Sex Games
Bondage is kinkier than a game, but can be so fun. For instance, you may want to try having to hold a certain position while giving your partner a blowjob, or getting fingered but not being allowed to have an orgasm. Sexual health is so important to your overall health, and having fun can really help you liven up your life.
“Voyeur”: Performing Foreplay Sex Games in Mirror
For who? For those who always wanted to know what their partners did when they were alone and want to masturbate!
This kind of foreplay is erotic: it is not you who will caress your partner, but each of you will masturbate. Face to face or side by side, you see your partner playing with himself, which will surely stimulate you.
While exchanging words during the moment, tell them how you feel, whether you think that you are very close to orgasm or not, and other kinky things that might be on your mind as you pleasure yourselves.
Sensation Testing Sex Games
Have you ever been blindfolded? Grab a scarf or tie, and blindfold one another. Take turns guessing what you’re touching them with. Try a piece of faux fur, leather, a spoon, ice cube. All of these are normal everyday things, but blindfolded creates a more heightened sensation and a sexy atmosphere.