Sensuality is a term that is often associated with sexuality. Referring to the ability to fully succumb to all of your senses in conjunction with physical pleasure, being more sensual means being more aware, accepting, and appreciating of this wide range of physical responses throughout the body. It is also associated with the connection built with a sensual partner, which is someone who is very self-aware of themselves in the sexual realm, being a more attractive, enticing person.
So how do you give a sensual blowjob? With the tips outlined below, not only will you blow his cock, but you’ll blow his freaking mind.
It’s All About the Senses
Again, sensuality is all about our 5 senses. This means that to give a sensual blowjob, you must ensure that the entire range of touch, sound, sight, taste, and smell are all catered to. To further ensure that you give the best sensual blowjob, you should also focus on the intimacy, and the connection shared during the experience- live in the moment, be present, and maintain your focus on providing them the epitome of physical, sexual pleasure.
How to Give a Sensual Blowjob:
1. Touch
Let us begin with the most obvious aspect of a sensual blowjob, being touched. Any blowjob will require touch, so then how do you make this more sensual?
As you go down on your loved one, first start by taking things slow and teasing them to build the anticipation of the experience. Don’t jump straight into what hides beneath the underwear, and take your time.
Caress his bulge from above the protection of his pants as you gently feel the blood rush to his nether regions and kiss along the outskirts of his pants as you slowly unbuckle his belt. By teasing with his clothes still on, you are hinting at the idea of sexual touch in a way that builds excitement for skin-to-skin contact, the perfect means of foreplay.
As you progress, continue with taking your time and slowly introducing more intense versions of physical touch. Don’t just focus on the genitals, as pleasure may be derived from his entire body, even when only engaging in a sensual blowjob. Tickle his skin with a light finger, running it along his lower back or his inner thighs, or grab at his chest so that he may feel your desire to please him first hand.
The more slow and precise your sensual blowjob, the better. Long, drawn-out kisses on his shaft and slow licks will have him dying to push his erection deep within your warm mouth, and by using this slow touch of sensuality to your advantage, you are guaranteeing that the physical response of the entire blowjob is enhanced.
If you really want to use touch as a way to provide the perfect sensual blowjob, try incorporating aspects of temperature play into your oral. For this, before going down on him, place an ice cube in your mouth or chew on some minty gum. This cooling effect will match ironically with the warmth of your mouth and will have him buzzing with the pleasures of these unique and ‘cool-to-hot’ feelings.
2. Sound
The sound of your actions and the sound of your enjoyment is a keystone method for enhancing what is a casual blowjob to an intimate and sensual blowjob. As you go down on him, remind yourself to be extra aware of the benefits of sound and to utilize this to your (and his) full advantage.
First off, you want to showcase that you too find pleasure in the act of pleasing him. By doing so, you are telling him that you love going down on him and making him feel good. This will make him feel like an absolute king, build comfort, and help him relax in knowing that the sensual blowjob isn’t an entirely one-way street of pleasure. And sure, in the end, you might not get much out of it in terms of your own sexual fulfillment, but that is exactly what we don’t want him thinking about!
Be extra loud and outgoing with your moans and gasps of air as you go down on him. Make him think that his penis is like sucking on the tastiest lollipop in a candy store and that you are relishing the taste and experience of it to the greatest possible extent.
The more spit, the better, as these squishy and slurping sounds are all associated with sexuality and will remind him with his ears that the physical sensations are incredible just because the sounds are indicative of a wet and slippery blowjob.
To really get to the best sensual blowjob, a little bit of choking will do the trick. The sound of choking will make him feel like he is in charge, something that many men appreciate, and will make him feel like he is living out his young-adult fantasies and give him a little boost of confidence regarding his size and girth.
3. Sight
Visual pleasures are entirely connected to physical pleasures. When you see something that looks good as you receive something that feels good, both are greatly enhanced.
Sight is honestly quite simple to accommodate into the perfect sensual blowjob. You are the star of his show, so take a little extra time to enhance these visual pleasures.
Dress up in your favorite lingerie so that he may look at you with ogle eyes. By showing off your sexiness, he will feel honored that you are willing to be the one who provides him sexual pleasure. And plus, what man wouldn’t want to see the subtle shadow of your nipple hiding beneath smooth silk? Before engaging in the actual oral, perhaps begin with a light striptease to really set the mood.
As you provide him a sensual blowjob, try making eye contact with him as you suck him off. This eye contact is an absolute gem to build the intimacy during oral, and he will feel your souls connect as you speak with your wide eyes. Force him to watch you as you suck, as he can visualize the sensation of his pleasure in live-action, watching every motion of your lips and tongue along his erection as he “sees” the pleasure.
If you are lying on the bed, try positioning your body so that he may look at your booty or your breast dangling above his pelvis while you send him into a world of sensual bliss.
4. Taste
Taste is definitely one of the most difficult parts of a sensual blowjob. After all, you are the one with something in your mouth and not vice versa. With taste, perhaps the best means to provide the best sensual blowjob is for YOU to indulge in the sensations of taste while he watches you.
Introducing food play! What better way to make for a tasty treat for both of you than by incorporating a little bit of food into the oral endeavors?
As an example, you really can’t go wrong with whipped cream. Layer his phallus with a bit of whipped cream and have him watch you as you gulp it up, further enhancing the mess, the allure, and the taste of the experience. Plus, the cooling sensation of the whipped cream and its ability to promote saliva production will ensure that the blowjob is A plus plus.
If you really want to get wild with things, you can try using some fruit as well. A grapefruit, for example, feels a heck of a lot like the insides of vaginal walls. Use it as masturbation aid, running his erection in and out of the open fruit, and then lick up all those tasty juices to help clean him up!
5. Smell
The smell is another tricky one in terms of a sensual blowjob. When it comes to smell, try focusing on the environment of the situation.
You might think that candles and aromatherapy are female-based pleasures, but men find serious relaxation in this as well! So go ahead, light that scented candle, or utilize some relaxing herbal essential oils to really set the mood right for him. By creating a clean, smell-good environment, he will further succumb to the relaxation and the experiential intimacy of the situation.
As well as this, think of wearing his favorite perfume before going down on him. Perhaps this perfume is one that you wore on your last date when you had wild and fun sex, and this olfactory sense will bring him right back into that moment. By wearing it, you are teasing him. He’ll wonder why you chose to spray yourself down with such lovely aromas, and you can answer his questions the second you start kissing along his goosebump-riddled skin!