The Reverse Cowgirl sex position is one of the most prominent and idolized of all sex positions.
This position is erotic and wild for those who like to be on top of their man, and does not care much for intimacy; perfect for those who instead wish to skip the eye contact and focus only on sensation.
Getting into the Reverse Cowgirl position is easy, and luckily doesn’t require a lot of flexibility.
What is Reverse Cowgirl?
Your man should first begin by lying on his back. You should then kneel down, with one leg on either side of him, on top of his thighs so that he is facing your back and you are looking in the same direction.
Then, lower yourself onto him for riveting penetration.
How to Do It
From here, the sensations are in your control. You can start grinding him slowly, you can begin to bounce up and down with passion, or you can use your hips as the driving force of your pleasure by moving through a range of speeds and pressures.
In many ways, the Reverse Cowgirl position is very similar to the Acrobat sex position. From Reverse Cowgirl, the female partner simply lies on her back (onto the man’s chest) for a unique take and newfound sensation derived from this classic sex position.
Why Reverse Cowgirl is the Best
Everyone has their own personal tastes on what they like best and what feels best for them, and not everyone responds to positions in the same way.
However, Reverse cowgirl is absolutely among the best sex positions that most people seem to enjoy, a staple to bedroom fun thanks to the angles, positioning, and power of the woman in charge.
Here’s why this sex position is deemed one of the best and why so many people practice it regularly:
- The reverse cowgirl has the power to create incredible (physical and visual) stimulation for men, but it also gives women a good angle with the G-spot, making it extraordinary!
- Women feel more confident. When you are in reverse cowgirl, you will feel like the most confident woman in the world. Since you are on the top, quite literally, this creates a powerful and proud sense of emotion. That’s right; YOU are in charge. If you are someone who doesn’t really feel comfortable with their body * although you should always be proud of it * reverse cowgirl lets you face away from your partner, giving them only your behind as the beautiful view.
- Women take control! What makes a girl sexier than being in charge? In reverse cowgirl style, women can take control of the situation.
- Women have excellent frontal access to themselves. Women, more often than not, need some form of clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. In reverse cowgirl, not only do they have complete control over penetration, but they also have control over touching themselves to get where they need to be!
- It gives men a view they’ll never forget. All they can see straight ahead is the sight of your booty moving up and down. Honestly, what more could you ask for? Not only do they get the joy of it, but women get the joy of knowing that their men are taking it to the extreme.
- It’s not super emotional. For those of you who are looking for a unique adventure and want to avoid having a deeper connection, this position is calling your name! With women away from men, it is not too intimate of a sex position. She also doesn’t have too much contact – other than the genitals. There isn’t a lot of body-to-body or eye-to-eye contact.
- This is a great transition position. Not only does this position have all of the benefits mentioned above, it is also a great position to move onto others. It’s really easy for your man to sit down and get you doggy style without having to maneuver too much!
Reverse Cowgirl Tips and Tricks for Better Sex
- Reverse cowgirl can seem fun and exciting, but can get a little confusing when things don’t fit together the way you expect them to right off the bat. Combat this uncomfortable start by familiarizing yourself with the position beforehand.
- Porn isn’t going to be your best friend to figure this one out. Instead, try looking at visual aids in photos or YouTube videos that show you exactly how to perform the position. It will give you a lot more confidence. Listen to the experts!
- Relax and have fun. The n.1 thing that will ruin any great sex session is overthinking or feeling tense. To feel good in your new position, you’re going to want to relax. Make sure you’ve already had a fun round of foreplay before you jump to the top. Basically, you’ll want to get wet and ready ahead of time!
- Avoid burnout! To avoid getting overworked and hidden in mid-session, make sure the reverse cowgirl is mixed in with another favorite sex position. For example, have your man put you on all fours, then when you both feel close, go reverse cowgirl for the grand finale. You can also take turns in this position, crashing into him, then having him put on the weight and sink in.
- Shallow ride. As previously stated, one of the reasons men are wary of reverse cowgirl is that this outrageous position in the past has harmed so many penises! If your man is worried about his favorite body part breaking, try doing a shallow push. It is good for both of you, prolongs the session, and ensures him an intact penis at the end of your orgasm!
- Do what feels right to you. There is no hard and fast formula when it comes to doing the “right” reverse “cowgirl”, and sex does not have to look a certain way to feel amazing. Do what feels right for you! If you like bouncing off your man’s member, go for it! If you prefer grinding or swinging motions or prefer to stand while your man hits you, this is what you need to do. Listen to yourself and respond accordingly for the epitome of sexual pleasure and fulfillment.
Restrain Your Partner in this Position
Why not learn about BDSM (bondage and discipline, domination and submission)? This practice manifests in many ways. Japanese bondage, for example, requires rope and a healthy dose of creativity. The arms, legs, feet, breasts, stomach, penis… all parts of the body can be tied together to increase desire and exacerbate pleasure. “Some ropes are created for beginners and include instruction manuals or graphics to show how to use them properly”, so I advise you to attach your partner and enjoy the ride if you are into rope bondage.
Is Masturbation of the Clitoris in the Heart of the Reverse Cowgirl?
This position can be used to stimulate the clitoris externally. It can allow friction between the body of your partner and this magical organ. The position of the reverse cowgirl is ideal for clitoral stimulation.
Gaining the upper hand (literally) means you like to be in control. And for that, you are not afraid to get involved! You like things to be done right, and your way if possible, and reverse cowgirls allow clear access for self-touch while riding.
Self-confidence is one of your most outstanding qualities, and you are not afraid to play a leader because you know what you are capable of. Be the leader of your clitoral pleasure, and don’t forget the vibrators for even more sensual fun as you arch back and ride him like a cowgirl!