Sex and healthy relationships.
Although one can indeed exist without the other, the honest truth is that the healthiest of relationships usually maintain the healthiest of sex lives.
Now whether a healthy sex life to you means having a lot of sex or simply having really really amazing sex with your partner, there’s a good chance regardless that a lot of your lovemaking goes on behind your bedroom doors.
Bedrooms are great. We know the environment well, we feel comfortable and private within our own space, we have easy access to that secret little drawer filled with all your favorite sex toys. But sometimes making love again and again in the same place can slowly start to dull the once bright shine of your intimacy.
To not only add a little spice to your relationship, but to also help you invigorate your love life should children, roommates, or other life instances get into the way, then we are here to talk about one excellent idea of which you should surely think to try.
And that idea is wild, crazy, and kinky resort sex. Were going to over all of the wonderful idiosyncrasies surrounding resort sex, including why resort sex is so dang good, and of course, provide to you some simple and applicable resort sex tips as to how to make your resort sex the absolute best that it can be.
Why Is Resort Sex so Good?!
If you have had resort sex, then you probably know that sex on a vacation adds a newfound variety to your love life that makes the sex just that much better. And there are a few reasons for that.
Hotel sex is one of the best ways to enhance your overall intimacy with a partner. Chances are the kiddos, the pets, or anyone/anything that might get in the way of your one on one time were left at the house. This allows you to focus on only your partner and throwing that ‘do not disturb’ sign on the door always gives you a little rush as you know that the time ahead will be spent divulging in the pleasures of your other half.
Sex is best when you are happy. Life stressors do nothing but get in the way of your libido, and having sex when other things are on your mind will always interfere with the overall quality of the situation.
Being in a hotel gives you vacation vibes, even if you are just there for a night to have sex, as who wouldn’t want a one night vacation anyways to get a little down and dirty? The vacation vibes of the hotel will help you to relax, forget about some of the other things in life, and simply live in the moment.
Utilize all of those little choices available to you at a hotel. The robes, the hot tub, the spa, the room service!
These will make yourself and your partner feel as though you are being pampered, because you really kind of are, and being pampered outside of your sex will only promote you to pamper the other during your sex, creating the orgasm-inducing experience you very much seek.
A Change of Scene.
The room is different, the bed is bigger, the pillows are softer, the lighting is better.
No matter what it is, a hotel will provide you a change of scene that is necessary for a healthy love life. Being repetitive with anything in life will never make it more fun, and this couldn’t be any more true than it is with sex.
A hotel is a guaranteed change of scene with all the right aesthetics in place to create a romantic experience built on kinky behavior.
And of course, there’s nothing much better about waking up the next day to a room with blankets scattered on the floor and not having to do a thing about it. Part of the beauty of hotel sex is not having to think of what comes next, and that very much includes cleaning up as part of it!
How to Have Insane Resort Sex.
Now that you know why resort sex is amazing, and why you need to give it a go, let’s get into the fun stuff. The dirty details and the horny how-to’s. Simple tips on how to have the best vacation sex.
Go for the Suite.
If your budget allows for it, then think to go for one of the nicer rooms available. When part of what makes resort sex so fun is the aesthetic and the luxury of it, then why not up the game and intoxicate your loved one with a beautiful suite and high rise views?
Have Fun First.
Before having fun with sex, use your resort as a means to create an entire date and experience around the whole ordeal. Have fun first so that you both are bubbly, giddy, and reminiscent on your first dates full of flair.
Grab a bottle of wine and hit the hot tub, snag a few drinks at the bar, order room service when you’re hungry. Even if sex is your main focus, you want to make the entire experience intoxicating and surrounded with romance so that your sex is just that much better.
Part of your best vacation sex experience starts before you leave. Packing according to the situation is key.
For the females, think to bring some lingerie and those sexy PJs that usually hang out in the bottom of the drawer. Have a sex toy that is always your favorite? Why not throw that in as well?
For the gentlemen, bring your best clothes. Bring the cleanest, nicest underwear you have, give yourself a nice shave. Pack the bathroom necessities and clothing that make you look the best, as this will make the experience better for both!
Even when in the own space of our home, clothing is usually being worn. There are kids around, neighbors that can see you, knocks on the door.
But at a hotel, the stakes have changed completely. You won’t be disturbed! Use this guarantee as a chance to shed the skin of clothes completely. Before, during (duh), and after your sex, keep the clothes off!
Be in the moment and appreciate every inch of skin of your loved one in an environment that allows you to stay naked as long as you so please.
Couples Packages For The Best Vacation Sex.
Nice hotels usually come with the option to purchase available packages that add a little romance to your best vacation sex experience.
Whether the full spa package or simply a nice bottle of champagne and chocolates that are set up and ready for you upon your arrival, it’s pretty much a guarantee that your significant other will very much appreciate this gesture, which might get you a few extra brownie points under the sheets.
Hotels are one of the best places for sexual role play to occur.
Try arriving at the hotel in separate cars. Meet at the bar and take on funny, different personalities and have a ‘one night stand’.
Use this opportunity to create a fantasy, even if role-playing isn’t something that you have always wanted to do, as it is impossible to create a newness around your relationship until you initiate the right actions to do so!
As well as role-playing, hotels often provide a great opportunity to practice a little bit of exhibitionism.
Resorts nearly always feature windows and blinds.
Usually, they are too high or too dark for anyone to actually see into, but give it a shot showing your exposed body to the world or have sex with the blinds slightly opened, as you might have a lot of fun in this safe exhibitionist environment. Even if no one really sees you, it is still quite the turn on for some to at least pretend.