At V for Vibes, we’re all about helping you to fulfill your wildest, dirtiest, and kinkiest of sexual desires. Exhibitionism is one of the most common of kinks. With so many people enjoying the art of putting on a public show, we want to explore an extremely fun and stimulating method of incorporating a touch of Exhibitionism into your own sex life. Using a remote control vibrator in public isn’t just the most sensational and sensual means of which this is done, as these lovely little sex toys provide an endless plethora of feel-good pleasure, but is also one of the least risky and best ways for a couple to practice exhibition based foreplay. 

Here you will find all you need to know about using a remote control vibrator as a means to discover your inner exhibitionist, as these are some of the most exciting of games to play when out and about with your loved one, and that is all but guaranteed to have you rushing home to finish what you have started during your ‘normal’ life endeavors. 

Why Using a Remote-Controlled Vibrator in Public is the Best form of Exhibitionism.

Before getting into fun ways to use your remote controlled vibrator for a touch of public masturbation, let’s begin with one thing: the fact that this is the safest means of exploring public play. 

A remote control vibrator can be easily hidden in your clothing, so no one really knows what’s happening (although your subtle moans and pleasures might give this away!). You’re not exposing your genitals, and with this, you significantly lower the risk of possible legal issues such as public indecency. 

It is also highly sanitary, compared to a quickie in a nasty bathroom stall, and just about as versatile as it gets, as you can literally take them anywhere! 

Create a Game

There’s nothing better than when sex is synonymous with joyful smiles and a touch of laughter, and creating a game to use with your remote controlled vibrator in public is the go-to method to make this happen. Not only is coming up with ideas the night before, sex toys and a bottle of wine in hand, an experience that in itself is alluring and entertaining, but it is also the perfect way to allow yourselves to explore ideas that you come up with as a couple. 

This is such a wondrous way to enhance your sex life and to build your relationship, and if the end result is a remote controlled vibrator orgasm, then I can assure you- no one will be complaining! 

Although we highly suggest trying to come up with some games on your own, here are a few bits of remote control vibrator-based inspiration to get down and dirty the next time you find yourself out and about. 

The Not-So-Safe Word

Have some errands to run or plan to go shopping? Why not add a touch of pleasure and sexual flair to your adventure. Before going out, determine a common word or a phrase that acts as your not-so-safe word. Something simple like a ‘how are you?’ will do just fine, but it’s up to you to be creative. 

Any time a passerby or a stranger says this cue, your partner has the right to click that fancy on-button for a few moments of sensational vibration sent right to your pleasure points. 

The same can be done with visual cues. Remember the good ol’ punch buggy no punch backs from high school? Same deal! Determine an object or an item that, should you run into it while out and about, acts as the signal for your lover to do as they please with the remote, initiating whichever level of vibration they so feel fit in the moment. 

The Restaurant Game

The next time you go on a date night out to eat, plan to pack your appetizer (aka, your vibrator!) ahead of time. In a restaurant setting, everyone is focused on themselves and their meals and will most likely have no idea what is going on. Restaurants create a face-to-face scenario with your loved one that is perfect for watching their eyes glow with a lustful mix of pleasure and fear. The experience in itself is ideal for this form of couples-based public masturbation. 

You can use the remote controlled vibrator in public eateries when no one is looking, or if you really want to step it up, try having your partner control it while you attempt to order your food. Your waiter/waitress might wonder where your giggles and squirms are coming from, and the test is to see if you can control yourself enough during this regular, day-to-day activity. What better way to pass the time while you wait for your food?

Dirty Dancing

No, we are not talking about the movie we all love, and go ahead and try their classic dance move anyways, but why not with a remote controlled vibrator in public to spice things up? If you love dancing, then this is such an invigorating means to enhance the already sweaty, blood-pumping activity to the next level. Because your blood and adrenaline are pumping, this will do nothing but help to also send blood flow to your genitals for enhanced pleasure during this unique form of public masturbation. 

When on the dance floor, you can hit that on button between songs for a few moments of blissful pleasure. You can do it during your favorite tunes, during the drops to songs, or whenever you so, please. 

For an added touch of true Exhibitionism, try having your partner watch you on the dance floor from afar. If anyone tries to make their way to them and steal them for a dance, then you are allowed to turn up the heat with your favorite remote control vibrator. What happens next, well, that one is up to you. 

Beach Day

Sex on the beach is such an exciting means of public fun, but let’s be honest, it’s sandy and sometimes tricky to pull off. So why not practice a little foreplay instead? The beach is the ideal location, as you can easily position yourself just far enough (yet just close enough) away from the crowds to enter a pleasure reality that only yourself and your loved one are aware of. 

Tuck the remote control vibrator into your bathing suit and enjoy some warm rays of sunshine in conjunction with a soaking wet experience.

Red Light Green Light

Public masturbation in a car is one of the most common and best locations to please yourself, so let’s have a little more fun the next time you and your partner take a drive. 

Wherever you two may be going, any time you pull up to a red light gives the okay for a few moments of sensational vibration! The question is, will you be dying for it to turn green, hoping it stays red, or turning the car around to go home and finish what you have started?!

Using a remote controlled vibrator in public couldn’t be easier and more accessible than when in a car, and this is one of the most comfortable means to approach this form of public masturbation, as you are still technically in your own ‘safe space’. 

I Dare You

Welcome to the adult version of truth or dare, but without the truth. Have a fun night out, daring your partner to do adventurous things. Should they succeed, then they pass, but if they fail…

Well, you know the deal! Turn up the vibration and punish them to new extremes (it’s not really punishment when they like it, though, right?). The dares in themselves may be sexual, or they can be anything your imagination can conjure up; the choice is yours. This is such a beneficial way to have a joyous night out, and the memories of this night will forever embed themselves into the strands of your relationship. 

Ask Away

Ask one another questions when out and about, such as in a restaurant- questions about yourself, your relationship, your life. Whenever your partner gets one wrong, the remote control vibrator gets it right. Turn it on for a few seconds of payback for their incorrect answer. Not only will you learn more about each other, but if your partner doesn’t know much about you, then you might bless them with a remote control vibrator orgasm (perhaps they will get them wrong on purpose!). All good, as long as they pay the favor back later!

Remote Controlled Vibrators in Public

As you can see, there exists an endless number of ways to really give a touch of pure, unexplainable excitement into your sex life. These are just a few examples of many, and as we said earlier, part of the fun is coming up with the games yourselves.  

So get creative, snag your little toy, and head on out for one of the best days of your life, thanks to your favorite third wheel!