Quicky sex is one of those ways of having sex that everyone should try at least once in their lives; full of passion and often as intense as the first time you got intimate with your partner. In this article, you’ll learn why you should have quicky sex, when and where to have a quickie and how to pull it off. Are you ready for a challenge?
When Should You Have Quicky Sex?
Whenever you feel like it, to be honest. There’s no right or wrong way to do it. But here are a few specific scenarios that call for a quicky:
1. When you’re in a rush
By definition, quicky sex is an option for when you’re in a rush and don’t have the time for longer intercourse. This doesn’t mean that it’s lower quality; on the contrary, it can make things more exciting, which you’ll find out about in the next section.
2. When you’re experimenting in public
Even though it’s possible to find a public place where you don’t have to worry about people walking in on you, the idea behind having sex in public is the thrill of getting caught. This means that you’ll have more fun hooking up in the park or a restroom and that you’ll have to be quick if you don’t want to be fined for public indecency.
3. When you want it to be more intense
Quicky sex typically involves skipping the sensual foreplay and moving straight on to the penetration, which is also a likely scenario when you can no longer stand the sexual tension and want to feel your partner right there and now. Quickie sex is short but intense; anticipation escalates into action straight away.
4. When you want to try something new
Even the most exciting sex positions and role-plays get boring after a while. For many women, the idea of having quick sex might not be the most appealing as it’s unlikely to give them an orgasm. On the other hand, it’s a great way to get out of your comfort zone without pushing your boundaries too much. For example, you might like fantasizing about opening your relationship and hooking up with strangers at the club, but you aren’t sure if you want to sleep with someone who isn’t your partner, so you can role play this kind of scenario and test the waters first. Additionally, even the most vanilla couples should try new things because people like novelty. It’s not going to be a honeymoon phase forever, so it’s good to experiment as much as possible.
5. When your partner experiences sexual problems
If your partner tends to come really fast the first time but holds an erection for longer the second time you have sex, it makes more sense to have a quickie first and then do something more sensual instead of pressuring him into performing better straight away. Show him that there’s nothing wrong with not lasting long, and you can have even more fun if you do it twice.
Why Should You Have Quicky Sex?
Just like any other type of sex, it can be a lot of fun, and you won’t know until you’ve tried it. But here are other potential benefits:
1. It brings novelty to the bedroom
As you already know, a quickie is a great way to experiment; it allows you to learn more about your sexual preferences by trying out different role-plays, and you might find out that a more intense and fast stimulation is what you need for a stronger orgasm.
2. It can be a form of foreplay
A lot of women feel more turned on after having sex because it might be the only way for them to get sufficiently lubricated. Plus, your sensitivity might increase after you’ve come once, and you might enjoy a better orgasm the second time, so a quickie can be a great introduction to longer intercourse.
3. It spices things up
As a quickie often involves public sex, it’s kind of like saying, ‘I know it’s not the right place and time to have sex, but my partner is so hot I just can’t resist’, and if this kind of relationship is what you’re going for, make sure to try quickie sex. In the next section, you’ll find out how to do it.
Time to move on to the fun part! Here are a few quicky sex ideas for you to try:
1. Start your morning right
If you often struggle to wake up in the morning and feel groggy no matter how many hours of sleep you get, skip the caffeine and try a morning quickie instead. It’s healthy for your body, you stay more alert, and you don’t necessarily have to wake up early to make it happen – it’s a win-win. Just make sure you and your partner are on the same page. Not everyone likes being woken up to have sex; however, having a go at dirty talk can be a great place to start. Just whisper a few words into his ear to initiate it.
2. Try shower sex
Shower sex isn’t people’s favorite for a reason; sharing water is impossible, and someone usually gets cold, the water gets everywhere, and in the worst-case scenario, your flatmate ends up banging on the door because you’ve spent half an hour trying to make it work. Unless you live alone and enjoy a challenge, shower sex might only make you more frustrated. But if you make it quick, that’s an entirely different story. You can try it in the morning or any time of the day – save water and have fun in the process.
3. Take the long way to work
If you have a car and your partner’s workplace is on the same way, why not break out of the routine and make the ride a bit more interesting. You can stop in a secluded place and get your blood rushing – just like morning sex, it works better than caffeine. By the time you get to work, you’ll be in a much better mood and ready to face the challenges of the day. Bonus points if you can repeat it on the way from work too. And if you think that the environment is a bit too unappealing, you can prepare a playlist for the occasion; go for sensual but upbeat songs that can make you feel aroused.
4. Spice things up in public
The most typical places in which you can have a quickie include a public toilet, a parking lot, a beach, a cinema, a crowded festival… All you have to do is let your imagination run wild and make sure you’re minimizing your chances of getting caught, aka, getting fined for public indecency. For beginners, it’s probably a good idea to do it in a public toilet, as even if people figure out what’s going on, you can always lock the door and deal with potential embarrassment when you’re already done.
For more ideas on how to have quicky sex, visit our article on quickie role plays.