Masturbation - the best way to orgasm!
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Masturbation - the best way to orgasm!

So many women experience issues orgasming. It’s one of the most frustrating and normal issues that women have! If you’ve never had one, you may not know what you’re missing out on, but when you get close, it can be very frustrating to not finish. For many women who do come during sex, clitoral stimulation is a must. Orgasms are not as common from penetration as many may think. To orgasm, you have to feel relaxed, but also aroused and in the moment. It can be hard to stay relaxed while in the moment, because you feel tense and ready to go. This can stop the experience of pleasure, and even cause performance anxiety. What do you do to make it happen for you? Take some tips from the Vibes team!


Illustrated by Nancy Chalmers

Knowing your own body is the number one way to master the elusive orgasm. Practice different ways of touching yourself! Using warm, clean hands, and experimenting with toys can really help you experience the best and most pleasurable feelings.

Some women enjoy using their fingers on their clitoris, because they feel more pleasurable feelings all over. Other women love dildos or vibrators. These sex toys come in many shapes and sizes, and all have different functions to make everyone feel incredible. There are wand vibrators that are strong and stimulate the clitoris. There are also small bullet style vibrators that create more gentle and enjoyable feelings, and are also more portable. Trying different styles to see which kind you like the best is very important- if one doesn’t work, another may be a better fit. Consider investing in a high quality vibrator that will withstand the test of time. Once you find something you like, your body will tell you. It’s an incredible feeling, to relax and be tense all at the same time! You may even feel it in your butt, thighs, and toes. This is that toe curling sensation. Just like in yoga, practice your breathing. To amp up the pleasure, you can try rubbing your clitoris or stroking it. Explore touching other areas like your breasts or ass with your free hand. A lot of women find this to increase pleasure and up the sexual experience. Keep playing until you feel that ultimate release!

Give yourself a break

We mentioned performance anxiety- men and women alike experience this. While working towards an orgasm, many women feel an emotional pressure to finish, which causes you to not finish! The more pressure to orgasm, the more likely you won't. Play

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