Sex games are simply amazing. Taking the pure joy that arises from a concept as simple as a ‘game’, the light touches of competition with laughter and small talk, and combining that with the invigorating joys of sex will provide you an experience that will forever maintain a special place in your memory bank.
Because good sex matters, but when that sex is paired with an entire experience, a whole date night dedicated to turning yourselves on to alas lead into those reality-shifting orgasms you have been so lustfully desiring- then the word good just won’t do it enough justice.
Today we have a few different versions of a DIY sex game that we like to call ‘pleasure chest’.
Pleasure chest can be a game made for just you and your partner, or it can be one that does extremely well in sex party settings, so stick around to see just how easy it is for this sex game to set up and play and why you might want to consider utilizing pleasure chest as a means to add a little spice and variety behind closed doors.
Couples Adult Game.
If you couldn’t guess by now, this game involves a chest. A literal one is great and rather aesthetically pleasing, but any type of decently large box that you can close will work just fine.
Now you have a chest, but that chest will remain empty until you fill it. And lucky for you, filling it might just be the most fun part.
For the best variety, choose to add three forms of things inside of your chest:
- Truth cards
- Dare cards
- Sex Toys
If you can, try creating separate areas within the chest for each, or use three different small boxes to keep things organized.
Now it’s time to get creative. Fill the truth cards with the things you really just need to know. Maybe you are curious if your partner is turned on by a certain kink? Maybe you want to know something about their sexual history that either haunts you or turns you on?
This is your chance to ask a question without really asking, and that’s why this game is so great is the fact that it aims to break down barriers by creating an environment of equalized questions (you both get to ask) as well as questions that are thoughtful and meaningful to those that ask so them so that you can both learn more about one another.
The same goes for the dare cards. You know yourself and your relationship best, so mix things up by writing down dares that are casual, risky, and maybe one or two that you are a little scared to try. Why not use this game as a chance to try something you have always wanted to?
Then of course the third box: Sex toys. As you work on building a collection of high-quality sex toys, fill the third box with them (they don’t have to be your actual toys, as this can be unsanitary, so a card with the name or picture of the toy will do just fine) as they will become an important part of the game. Place a few “Sex Toy” cards into the truth and dare boxes, and when those are pulled you must reach in and choose a toy instead.
Now it’s time to set rules on when or why you must draw from the pleasure chest. Maybe you choose to play it like a game, each taking turns on a set night to use the pleasure chest as a means of foreplay before sex.
It can also be very fun to use the pleasure chest as a form of punishment. Set a few rules in regards to your daily life or things that consistently happen, and when one of those triggers goes off, then that means later that night you have to reach into the chest. Something along the lines of someone trying to flirt with you or, if you lose your phone.
When that happens, you not only must pull from the box of fate, but you must perform or answer whatever it is on the card, or better yet, use one of the sex toys.
The game itself is rather simple, but it is an extremely effective tool at breaking down sexual barriers, initiating how to try new things, and expressing certain thoughts or kinks that before you chose to only hold within yourself, so use this game as an opportunity to further learn your partner and to enhance your sex life quite a bit.
Pleasure Chest for Sex Parties.
If you are one to host or go-to some form of sex party often, then it’s a common theme to have a sexy game for everyone to play to get things moving along, if you know what we mean.
Having a pleasure chest at a party is a really amazing way to do this.
Simply fill a pleasure chest with an array of sex toys, and attach a card to each one with a little set of rules that must be followed. The rules really depend on the intensity of your party, so they can be reserved or they can be rather wild, the choice is up to you and your vibes.
Something like stripping down to your underwear or giving a stranger a kiss. It’s all up to you, so have fun coming up with the requirements!
Upon arrival at the party, provide the guest with the option to pull something out of the pleasure chest. In exchange, they get to keep whatever item might be inside, but only on the promise that they do whatever it is that the card says.
It’s a great way to showcase new products, to create an environment that is sexy and fun, and to simply make for a sex party that everyone will remember. Especially those with a brand new toy to break in.
Everyone will have so much fun watching others pull the toys and read the card and their set task, and then of course more fun when the task leads to jumping under the sheets to give it a try if that’s the kind of thing that floats your boat!