What is Pegging?

Pegging is a sexual act where a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates a man’s anus. A man who enjoys receiving pegging is not defined as gay, which is important to note. If your partner has been with you, having sex, providing oral sex, etc… he’s most likely straight. Just as you may enjoy anal sex, a man can too! And no, if a man is turned on by pegging sex, this doesn’t mean he will then want to go have anal sex with another man. Remember that sexual preferences are wide and varied, and trying new things together are part of why relationships maintain that exciting sexual spark that people talk about. It deepens the intimacy and emotional connection you have!

Pegging sex is not necessarily painful.

Just as anal sex does not have to painful for you, pegging sex doesn’t have to be painful for your partner. If it does hurt, then stop what you’re doing, and assess the situation. Are you going too fast? Is the dildo too big? Do you need more lubricant? These are typically the things that go wrong when pegging. It can also turn a man on more than a blow job. Pegging sex stimulates the prostate, which can lead to a more powerful orgasm even than a regular one. Women penetrating men is more popular than you may think. In fact, it’s easy to find these videos of this strap-on sex on sites such as Reddit, Pornhub, and anywhere else you may find porn.

It may be a little messy, but not usually. 

Obviously, similar to anal sex with you, pegging involves your mans anus. This is the same area of the body that deals with eliminating waste. Sometimes, there may be some mess that comes from it! However, as long as he makes a bowel movement before hand, there really should be nothing to worry about. Even if a small amount of waste comes out, it’s simple and easy to clean up using a high quality toy cleaner. 

Pegging sex is just not normal or right to do to a man.

This is really not true. If you’re a woman interested in giving pleasure, and your man is interested in receiving this pleasure, there’s nothing to be ashamed of or feel like it’s wrong. Some people believe that using sex toys as a whole or not natural. Some people don’t think lubricant is natural to use, even if they don’t make enough lubrication naturally. Others may find bondage amazing, while many find it wrong and unnatural. 

As adults, you make the choice to figure out what is right for you to try and what isn’t. Don’t let societal guidelines dictate what you do and don’t want to try. It’s nobody’s business except for you and your partners. All we’re saying is to give it a go and see if you like it! If you do, great, if you don’t, that’s fine too. However, you never know until you try! Like we always say, everything deserves a chance.

Putting on a strap on makes you butch.

That’s far from the truth. You don’t become butch or manly just from trying a sexual act. It’s literally just a sex toy, and it does not define you or mak eyou who you are. There are also many types of harnesses for your strap on that can express your individual style. You can choose leather, pink, utilitarian, and any other variety you can think of! Harnesses are readily available on Amazon and many other sex shops online, so you don’t even have to buy them in person, taking out the embarrassment factor. Additionally, dildos don’t have to look like penises. There are many dildos available that look nothing like a penis. They come in different colors, shapes, and sizes. 

Pegging can be pleasurable for men!

Going back to the prostate gland, pegging stimulates this for men. This is typically considered very pleasurable, and it’s easiest to stimulate anally. Prostate stimulation can offer some men multiple orgasms, which isn’t typical for straight men. Often, once they finish, they’re done for a few hours. However, with prostate stimulation, the orgasm is different. Again, it’s also considered a more powerful orgasm. Some men say that prostate orgasms are 10 times as powerful as the orgasm they have when having normal penetrative sex with their partners. 

It is healthy for the prostate.

When done correctly, the stimulation of the prostate a man receives can actually be good for him! Staying healthy is key. It can help avoid a swollen prostate, and relieve the symptoms if they have a swollen prostate already. Don’t discount the health benefits of this “taboo” act. Prostate stimulation as men get older is imperative to keeping their health optimal, and reducing risk of prostate cancer.

Women can enjoy giving while pegging.

A lot of women find pegging pleasurable because it allows the woman to switch roles and be in control. It’s very sexy, and can be so fun to experience being the pleasure giver in the relationship. 

Just because you’re giving doesn’t mean you can’t cum.

Some dildos and harnesses offer clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Other women may orgasm because just the idea of being the one giving pleasure is very exciting! The sexy thrill of a power switch can really excite and make women feel so much power and control. You can even use a vibrator that you insert, like vibrating kegel balls, to stimulate you even more while performing this act of pleasure on your partner.

It offers one more thing for your sexual treasure chest of choices.

At the end of the day, pegging sex allows one partner to switch roles, take control, and provide a lot of pleasure for your partner. There’s no reason that pegging shouldn’t be in your go to sexual experience if you love it! Maybe it’s an all the time thing, maybe it’s a once and a while thing, but definitely give it a go!