Some people really, really love oral sex and oral sex toys. And for good reason, too!
Oral sex acts as one of the most riveting means of foreplay, a way to create a sense of excitement and a lure of desire as a tease to the pleasures of the main event, an intimate approach at bringing ourselves closer to our partner through the delicate use of our mouths.
And to some, oral sex is a means at providing the complete experience, a clear and concise path to a soul-shaking orgasm for the lucky woman who knows this elusive feeling well or for the men who hold oral as equally high on the pedestal as any other form of sex.
So then, how incredible would it be to mimic these lustful sensations through the use of an oral sex toy that would make this possible without the need for another human being? Pretty dang incredible, and something absolutely worth pursuing if your desires point you in that direction.
The good news, then, is that there does indeed exist erotic toys for both men and women that are crafted for exactly this reason. And more than that, other sex toys are a great way to enhance your oral sex all around for a much more enjoyable experience, so stick around to learn all about how to make this possible. And go ahead and stretch your jaw a bit, because after you’ll definitely want to be warmed up!
How do Oral Sex Toys Work?
For women, the pleasures of oral sex are derived from the moisture of the partner’s tongue, the licking, the insertion of the tongue, and of course the sucking of the clitoris and other parts of the vagina. The technical term for this act is known as “cunnilingus”. And when done right, it can be a one-stop ticket to an orgasm, as the clitoral stimulation will lend for the most sensual of feelings.
An oral sex toy, then, is of course going to try to recreate these tongue and mouth movements as best as possible.
A lot of oral sex toys, like a clitoral sucking tongue, are crafted with suction. A toy that mimics cunnilingus will often use air pressure to ‘suck’ on your vagina. This air pressure can be created by using a small motor, just like in a vibrator, but a motor that doesn’t vibrate and instead, it pulses.
You will place the open mouth-like piece around the most sensitive areas of your vagina, especially the clitoris, and lay back as the toy does the rest of the work.
Other oral sex toys feature designs that allow for a tongue like, licking sensation. If there was such thing as a ‘pro’ at eating out, these kinds of oral sex toys might just take the spotlight, as the motor will move a small ball around in intricate and delicate motions that YOU control.
That alone is one of the best aspects of these kinds of toys. Although you can talk to your partner how you best like to be pleasured with oral sex, the truth is that the majority of the performance is up to them. With an oral sex toy, you can control positioning, the intensity of the sucking and licking, and timing so that you can walk yourself straight down the red carpet of climax with no interruption.
With oral sex toys, for the best results and sensations, always use a ton of lube. There is no such thing as too much lube, as lube will help to further amplify the ‘mouth like’ feeling of these toys, creating moisture similar to saliva, and of course, lube always makes things safe by preventing any accidental friction or small tears.
How to Use other Toys to Make Oral Sex Better
Some of us aren’t looking for a toy to mimic oral sex for our alone time, but instead are looking to enhance oral sex with our partner. To do this, an oral sex toy becomes a little bit different in its approach to pleasure delivery.
If you were to choose an oral toy that is meant to replace a mouth, then your partner might be stuck idly watching as you let the innovation of erotica go down on them instead of you. And though that can be a ton of fun, to make oral sex better you don’t want to take away the job of the mouth completely, and instead, you want only to amplify.
To do this, one of the best additions to oral sex is a toy meant for insertion. This leaves your partner plenty of room to work with the tongue as you also receive the benefits of stimulating all those feel-good nerves deep inside of you.
You really cannot go wrong with a classic dildo. The size, shape, and level of realism are up to you, but no matter what your partner is going to get the absolute best of both worlds. As you use your tongue to pleasure the upper, exposed part of the clitoris, gently thrust the dildo to their liking, keeping open communication to best find out what they like until you hit the sweet spot of the G spot.
If either of you fantasizes about a group sex setting, this is a really fun way to role play this situation as well, as the partner can also perform oral on the dildo and inside of your vaginal canal while the dildo is inside. Dirty, fun, and most importantly an effective means of reaching orgasm through oral sex.
If your partner gets off on pure sensation, then think to upgrade the dildo to a luxury vibrator. Because you will be busy on the outside parts of the vagina, you probably don’t want a clitoral vibrator or a bullet vibrator that isn’t meant for insertion. Instead, a vibrating dildo is your best bet.
This way, you can do exactly what we talked about with a regular dildo, but you can also add the spice of vibration to make for a 3-in-1, all-inclusive oral experience. Insertion, vibration, and the sucking and licking of warm mouth all at the same time.
To have a little extra fun, a vibrator with different available speed options will allow you to filter through varying levels of vibration throughout your lovemaking to find what feels right for you and to add a little fluctuation of ‘intensity to calm’ as you go down on your partner. You can also find remote control vibrators that will allow them to control the speed at their fingertips while your tongue stays busy!
If you are one to enjoy anal play, then the incorporation of a small butt plug can act as an incredible newfound pleasure source to intensify the sensations of oral sex on your vagina while hitting some serious thigh shaking sweet spots.
No matter what, when it comes to sex toys that make oral sex better, just make sure you are using one that leaves plenty of room to do what it is you do best with your mouth and think personally about what YOU enjoy so that you can find a toy that aims to pleasure these characteristics of yourself throughout cunnilingus.
Oral Sex Toy for Men
When it comes to men, oral sex toys range from simple to complex. There are the oral versions of pocket pussies shaped with plump lips, ready for a little lube, and a pretty realistic blowjob. Straightforward and easy to use.
But more intricate than that are the same designs, but with additional motors so that the mouth opening creates its own suction movements to feel incredibly close to the real thing. Oral sex whenever you please, an amazing addition to erotic toys available to men.