Listen, oral sex is talked about often for men, but how often do we get to talk about giving a woman the best oral sex of her life or how to eat a pussy? Going down on a woman is pretty simple, and there are many techniques to make it the most pleasurable experience for her. Whether you’re a straight man, or a female with a female partner, everyone deserves to have mind-blowing, toe-curling oral sex. Unless of course, your partner doesn’t like oral. However, for this scenario, let’s pretend that she does.
Eating Pussy Research.
Research has shown that straight women have far less orgasms than anyone else demographically. This could be in part to the fact that their partners are not putting in the effort to please them to their full capacity, especially when it comes to oral sex and fingering. At V For Vibes, our mission is to close the orgasm gap, and this is the orgasm gap that women are experiencing.
Read on for eating pussy tips to give the best oral sex your partner has ever received!
How to Eat a Pussy Like A Pro.
It’s not all about the clitoris right away.
Yes, clitoral stimulation is fabulous, but just like in penetrative sex, women need a build up with foreplay. Get her body primed and ready, create anticipation, and make sure that she wants oral sex! Try warming her up by making out with her, sensually caressing her body, and work your way down her body by kissing her. Eating her pussy is not just licking it and sucking on her clitoris. There’s so much more to it than that. Again, anticipation and build up are the absolute key to making sure she’s ready for you to go down on her.
Eating pussy involves more than just your tongue.
Use your fingers! Lick her vagina! Stop trying to just flick her clit with your stiff tongue. Sure, it may feel good for a bit, but there’s no excitement and exhilaration in that. Dive in and get wet. If you’re not focusing on the whole vagina when eating pussy, then there’s nothing to be excited about. You are missing out on the entire fun portion of eating pussy – which is, well, eating pussy. Internal stimulation with your tongue will probably drive her wild. You never know until you try. Try adding a finger or two, fingering her while you suck and rub on her clitoris. If you’re good at what you’re doing, you’ll have her begging you not to stop in no time.
Make sure your position is comfortable.
The most popular position for eating pussy is for your partner to be on her back, and you to be on your stomach with your face down. You can also try to give her oral sex with her standing, and you on your knees. What’s nice about the classic girl on back position is the ability to reach all parts of her vagina and clitoral area. You can eat her out, finger her, and even provide anal play if she’s in to that. You can also have her sit on your face, which puts her in the position of power and can even be a massive turn on for some women. It allows her to do what she likes, while you also provide something she enjoys.
Don’t be so boring!
When you go down on a woman, you want her to feel like you’re enjoying it, otherwise she will probably feel self conscious. No one wants a completely silent partner performing an act of sexual pleasure on them. Moan a little, tell her how sexy she is. When you show her you’re turned on by her being turned on, it intensifies her being turned on even more! Just as you like to hear her be vocal when she pleasures you with a blow job or during sex, she desires the same thing.
Eating pussy is the female equivalent of a blowjob.
For women, the entire clitoris being stimulated can feel similar to the sensation you experience when receiving a blow job. Don’t just lick or suck at the little nub that you think is her clitoris. The hood also has intense nerve endings that you want to stimulate. Suck it in and out, as this is even more stimulating than just using your tongue. Combine that with fingering, and you have a dangerous recipe for pleasure.
Not all women like oral sex.
Oral sex enjoyment is different than being comfortable with being eaten out. You want to make sure they’re comfortable with you going down on them to eat their pussy, instead of just hopping in to it. All women have different preferences. They may want to shower first, or they may be close to their period and not want to risk it. Don’t assume that just because you have consensual sex, she will want you to give her oral pleasure as well. As we always say, communication is the absolute key to any healthy sexual relationship.
Once you find her spot, don’t move!
There’s no worse feeling than having the perfect spot stimulated, and then your partner moving. It can be so hard to find that spot, so once you get there, don’t stop! If you’ve truly found their amazing spot, they will not get bored of you playing with it. It’s absolutely enjoyable, and the closer they get to orgasming, the worse they’ll feel if you stray away from it.
Remember that this is a very sensitive area.
She may be extremely sensitive to clitoral stimulation. Try not to give her pain that’s not pleasurable. Having a conversation to see what stimulation may bother her can be beneficial to making her feel more comfortable and satisfied in bed, She may not want some of the stimulation you think she does! She may want no clitoral stimulation at all, and only want you to focus on internal tongue stimulation. Or, vice versa, she may not be comfortable with internal stimulation, and only want you to focus on her clitoris. The more you know, the better it will be for both of you. Alsom, try to swallow your extra spit. No one wants to feel your spit just running down their backside. It’s not a pleasant experience.
Every woman likes something different while you are eating her pussy.
Just because one partner likes one thing doesn’t mean another woman will like the same thing! Again, communication will really help you figure out how to eat a pussy and what will and won’t work for you and your partner. All bodies and all women are different, and their enjoyment factors vary so vastly. Ask her what she likes, communicate your preferences, and make sure she communicates hers.
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