We all know you’ve pondered the idea of making a homemade sex tape with your partner. After all, it’s quite the invigorating way to add a flair of excitement and fun into your shared sex life with another. So what are the benefits of making a homemade sex tape? We’re here to highlight the positive aspects derived from the art of making a sex tape with your loved one.
What is a Sex Tape?
However, filming a homemade sex tape doesn’t mean that you are doing this to share it on the world wide web, making a sex tape very much different from pornography. You do it simply for the experience together and to have a little bit of extra fun, and your reasons don’t have to be anything other than making a sex tape that only your eyes see. Of course, you could share it if you find pleasure in exhibitionism, but we’re talking about a sex tape simply for the joys of changing up your intercourse with a new and alluring form of discovery and play.
Why Film a Homemade Sex Tape?
The thing about filming a homemade sex tape is that there really doesn’t have to be a definitive reason behind doing so. Don’t take it too seriously, and just do it for the experience together if you are comfortable with your loved one and if there is full consent from both parties involved. With that, there are quite a plethora of positive benefits that are sure to follow when you break down certain barriers of comfortability and walls surrounding the taboo of such an instance, such as:
It’s Fun as Hell
The most obvious reason for anyone who wishes to film a homemade sex tape is that it’s really just a fun and lively experience!
It’s all too common and easy to allow the mundane to take over your sex. An excellent sexual routine is great, but sometimes you have to take it upon yourselves to ensure that the words ‘boring’ or ‘repetitive is never synonymous with your sex. A wonderful way to spice up your carnal endeavors and to change things up with a fun and exciting experience of sex that is far from ‘the same old routine’ is to film your sex!
Its kinky, dirty, requires quite the wild imagination, and the shared experience of actually taking it upon yourselves to film your sex will result in a sexual adventure that is just about as fun as it gets, providing quite the high of sensual bliss as yourself and your partner engage in this amusing and lighthearted act.
It Promotes Conversation
Talking about sex is often difficult for some couples. Although it shouldn’t be, sex can be a touchy subject, and some find fear in opening themselves up through conversation regarding sexuality. But the negative aspect about that is the fact that engaging in consistent sex talk is the best way to ensure that all parties are fulfilled, happy, and comfortable in their sex lives, and conversation is the only way to truly adjust things accordingly for the better.
How are you supposed to know if your partner wants to try out something new if they aren’t able to openly voice it to you?
By taking it upon yourselves to film a homemade sex tape, you HAVE to talk about it. One of you must first bring the idea up, which will lead to talking about and planning the idea, which leads to turning the idea into action. All of which will require ample amounts of honest communication as you do so along the way.
Making a sex tape is like an art form in itself and will force you to engage in all sorts of conversations surrounding the subject; what angles should we film, what sex positions should we try, do we look good on camera, should we use sex toys in our film? All of these questions and a million more will manifest during this experience. By forcing yourself to engage in this sexual conversation, this will promote conversation and overall comfortability with conversation in the future surrounding all other facets of your love life.
It Builds Sexual Confidence
Have you ever said, “Damn, I look hot as hell when I ride you”?
Unless you’ve filmed a homemade sex tape before, then probably not! After all, there’s really no other way to see and visualize yourself and your body engaging in sexual acts unless you look back on the experience with a camera. Making a sex tape means that you will be forced to watch yourself engaging in a private and spiritual act, something that just doesn’t happen otherwise.
If you struggle with confidence in the bedroom, then this might be your perfect fit. When you are able to actually see what your body looks like, how connected yourself and your partner look, and how wildly sexy you two are while you engage in the most beautiful act of human nature, this will all lead to building sexual confidence and overall personal confidence that will last far beyond the moments of making a homemade sex tape.
Because remember, the most important thing here is that we are all beautiful, that our sex is beautiful, and by visualizing this together with your own eyes, you will forever remind yourself of this beauty, which is quite the powerful shot of confidence if you ask me.
It’s Actually Sexy to Watch
Most of us have probably seen other humans engaging in sex, whether in a movie or an actual pornographic film or perhaps even in real life. But when it comes to watching ourselves having sex, the idea might sound a little weird, awkward, or cringy. It’s like, no way on earth do I want to see my naked body in its purest form!
But let me ask you this question: why not?
Relating back to the increase of sexual confidence, you might not realize it, but watching yourself have sex can actually be super sexy to watch. And, of course, with your partner involved, watching them as well is drool-inducing indeed.
So if or when the time comes where your partner is away on a business trip or gone for the day, and the allure of a little bit of self-love through masturbation wins over, if you are one that enjoys a touch of visual satisfaction to help set the mood as you make love to yourself, doesn’t it seem all too nice to watch a video of yourself and your partner?
Many view watching pornography as an unhealthy experience when in a relationship (we know there are many varying opinions here), but wouldn’t watching yourself and your partner adversely compliment your sex life and your romanticism? It associates your self-love practices with your partner, solidifies your relationship’s strength and love for them, and doesn’t lead to the desire for something you don’t have. All it does is say, “I would rather watch us make love than other people”, thus building your sexual connection even when your partner isn’t present with you.
A Homemade Sex Tape Leads to Further Exploration
When you can break down any fears or worries about trying something new with sex, such as with filming a homemade sex tape, every step taken in this direction leads to growth and further sexual enlightenment.
When you can check one box off, then taking it upon yourself to explore with another one becomes so much easier and less intimidating.
Making a homemade sex tape is quite the experience indeed, and when you are done with your kinky little ‘art project’, you will have accomplished a new task together that really did take growth, fearlessness, communication, and openness on both ends.
With this as the case, you become much more comfortable in your own skin, your relationship, and yourself. This means that, should you have other, possibly more taboo kinks or fetishes or ideas that you wish to explore, you will have a much more effortless time bringing this up to your partner and actually following through with experimenting with them!
So if you want to jumpstart your sex life with the perfect base of discovery in hopes to lead to more, then starting with filming a homemade sex tape explicitly for your and your partner’s pleasure and eyes is surely one of the best places to begin.