Sex Toy Party

Buying a sex toy can be a bit of an uncomfortable process for many women, especially if you don’t feel the ability to order online for fear of packaging being obvious. You may feel uncomfortable going into a sex shop, especially if this shop is in a small town that you are known in. Online shopping is usually safer and easier, but then you can’t touch and feel the toy before purchase. This leaves us with an odd conundrum. 

So what will you see at a sex toy party?

Every company and brand has a range of products. From dildos, vibrators, anal beads, lubricants, condoms, and maybe even some costumes, sex toy parties will introduce you to a huge variety of fun things to spice up your life. If there are any things that you may not want to expose yourself or your friends too, make sure you let the hostess know first! They can always exclude things you may not be in to. Some sex toys are specifically for couples, where others are designed to be used solo. If your partner is nervous or jealous that you are wanting to host or go to a sex toy party, explain how much he benefits from your attendance!

Why would your partner care?

Sex toy parties are fun bonding time with friends, and can definitely help you pick the best options for you. However, if you are dating a male, he may feel a little threatened or not understand why you need to attend one of these. Remember that at the end of the day, it is your decision to do what you want and buy what you want, and not to let jealousy or insecurity dictate what you do. If your partner is a female, you could easily attend together and choose things that could be fun for the both of you to try on each other, or solo! You could even pick out a toy for each of each other to surprise and delight.

Remember, if your partner feels threatened by you, wanting to attend a sex toy party, they are most likely insecure in the relationship.

What should you know about sex toy parties?

One thing to realize is that you are not going to see people using these toys the way that many may assume. This is not a porn fest or orgy. You will be shown how to use them, but not with a demonstration using the actual anatomy! This is not a crazy horny sex party. At most, you hold the vibrator or dildo in your hand and get to feel the different vibration settings, etc. You also don’t have to buy anything if you don’t want to! There is absolutely no pressure, and it is totally ok to just browse and look around.

So how can you plan a sex toy party?

First, you’ll need to find a company that offers this service! We always recommend googling in your area. You can also reach out to local shops to see if this is a service they may offer. Try googling “sex toy representative” or “sex toy party planning” to start. Just like interviewing a nanny, or anyone in general, you want to connect with the hostess and have fun! Make sure they are knowledgeable about the toys and things that they are bringing. You don’t want this to just be a sales pitch, but a fun girls’ night-in. 

Next, figure out which friends you’re going to invite! Some clarification that you will not be trying the toys in person may be helpful if they have hesitations. 

Make sure you have snacks and wine! Loosen up, and ensure that no one gets hungry. 

Another way to make sure that people are comfortable when invited is to ensure that everything is confidential. Your information and your friends’ information will not be shared on the internet, pictures will not be taken, and no one will tell their other friends about the sex toy party. This will avoid friends or family judging you, and ensure that everyone is comfortable being open and having fun. 

So now that you are a sex toy party expert, it’s time to go out and host one! Nowadays, we have little fun going out, since it isn’t available. Why not bring the event to your home, and make it a little spicy! Plus, who doesn’t need a new sex toy?