So, you want to know how to deep throat a dick? Deep throating is the sexiest way to give an amazing blow job that rocks your partner’s world. As it turns out, a lot of women have the same exact common issue – their gag reflex. So how can you combat your gag reflex when trying to give an amazing, deep throated blow job? We’re going to teach you.

The Gag Reflex.

About 37% of women don’t have a gag reflex. Must be nice! However, if you’re like the other percentage of women that do, you may find deep throating a daunting task. Deep throating is so easy once you have your gag reflex under control. Your gag reflex can be triggered by something touching the roof of your mouth, back of your tongue, or your vulva. 

You basically need to try to train your gag reflex, or desensitize it, to reacting when something touches the back area of your mouth. Desensitizing takes a lot of time and effort, and won’t happen overnight, so be patient.

If you want to start desensitizing your gag reflex, try some of the tips below to get you started.

Using a dildo, a finger, or even a toothbrush back that’s clean, try to work it back towards the back of your throat. Once it triggers your gag reflex, try to hold it there and suppress the feeling. This is a conscious effort you’ll need to make. Practice breathing through your nose, while trying to relax your throat at the same time. The breathing portion can be the hardest, but don’t give up just because you keep gagging.  Like we mentioned, it is a slow and steady process. Try to do this at least twice a day for about 10 seconds for a week. Once you get to the end of the week, you’ll probably find that it’s gotten much easier, and that your gag reflex is much less sensitive. Keep practicing for the next few weeks! When you notice it has almost completely stopped, you can then work your way to moving the item in and out and stimulating it even more, so it keeps hitting and causing that gag reflex. Keep breathing and relax. After a few weeks, you’ll feel a lot more comfortable without feeling the need to throw up or cough.  Once you’ve hit that milestone, you’re ready to start trying this with your partner. 

What your partner needs to know! Deepthroat Tips.

Yes, now your gag reflex is desensitized, and you probably feel ready to deep throat your partner to your fullest ability. However, you also need to make sure your man is aware of how uncomfortable deep throating can be for you. Most men are smart enough to know this, but it’s important to verify that he understands. The first few times you guys try this together, you’re going to want to be in control, and not let him thrust in and out of your mouth. This makes it more pleasant for you so that you aren’t getting injured or gagging unnecessarily. Talk to him and communicate that you want to try, but that you need his patience! 

How to deep throat during different sex positions.

Not all positions are the same when it comes to deep throating. Usually, when your mouth and throat are aligned, it’s much easier to deep throat without pain and pressure. Lie on your back with your head tilted back to try this out. 

However, if your man’s penis curves, you may find that other positions work much better for you. Experiment and see what the most pleasant and comfortable position is for you! It can also be really fun sucking his dick in multiple positions, and super sexy. 

Breathing is still important for deepthroating.

How to deep throat and breath at the same time? Just like when you practiced desensitizing your gag reflex, you need to remember to breathe. Breathing is much harder when you have a penis in your mouth, especially if he is on the larger side of the spectrum. The easiest way is to try to breathe through your nose. When he pulls out or you pull back, take a breath! However, if he is too big for this, just take breaks when you need them. It’s ok to pull back for a breath. Any man should understand this.  

Try different techniques. 

Since most men rarely get deep throated, they’ll be grateful you’re even making an attempt. However, there are some more advanced deep throating techniques you can try. 

Lick his balls.

– When you’re on your knees and he’s standing, try to lick or suck his balls! This also gives you a great opportunity to catch your breath and give your throat a break. Or, if you want to get super advanced, you can try to take your tongue out while he’s deep in your throat and lick them. 

Making noise.

– Humming or moaning while deep throating can give incredible vibrations that really get your man going. These vibrations release an intense sensation but be prepared that they could make him cum fast!

Use your hands.

– Use your hands to control his thrusting, to play with his balls, and to massage his legs. This sensual element is sure to surprise him. 

Where should he finish?

When deep throating, you can let your man finish his orgasm in your mouth, down your throat. This sensation is different than what you’ve experienced before since it’s deep. You may choke a little, so working up to that can be a keyway to implement it. You can also let him cum on your chest, or on your face. It’s all up to you! Or, you can stop deep throating and suck his dick regularly so that he comes just in your mouth, and you have a choice whether you swallow or not. If he cums in your throat, you do pretty much have to swallow.

Now that you’re armed with the pro deep throating tips, go show your man what you’ve got! He’ll be surprised and excited, and you’ll feel even sexier having mastered this incredible sexual technique. Now it’s your chance to show him how to deep throat.