Imagine allowing your mind to slip into the control of another human being within a sexual setting, their words alone granting them power over your very existence, an experience that is as equally unique as it is enticing.
If the idea of completely letting go, granting another human being the ability to access and open the deepest and the kinkiest of doors within your brain so that arousal and sexual pleasure are heightened to levels never before known, sounds enticing; then erotic mind control just might be for you.
What is Erotic Hypnosis?
Before getting into erotic hypnosis, let us start with standard forms of hypnosis.
Hypnosis is the process in which a professional hypnotist or hypnotherapist, through the power of the spoken word and other cues, places their subject into a trance-like state of extreme focus and concentration.
This state is also a state of relaxation, and can be compared to being asleep. You are, however, awake and (somewhat) aware of what is going on.
During hypnosis, the trance you are placed in allows your mind to become more open to accepting information, ideas, advice, and actions, and you will soon see how this relates to sexuality.
This open state of mind allows new ideas and ideologies to become rooted into the subject’s brain as reality. This can help negate negative forms of thinking through the processing and understanding of the way they think and feel.
Erotic hypnosis is exactly the same thing as hypnosis, but the focus of the proposals, advice, and direction of the hypnosis therapy will focus entirely on sexuality.
This means that the subject will either become more prone to trying new things, understanding new ideas, ridding of negative past sexual experiences that now hold back their sexuality, or simply acting as a form of a dominant and submissive relationship.
Erotic Mind Control and BDSM
Erotic mind control is an integrated aspect within the world of BDSM.
The erotic hypnotist will take on the role of the dominant, as they are the ones who choose the direction of the hypnosis and who maintain control over the situation.
The subject is, of course, the submissive. But where erotic mind control stands out over other forms of dominant and submissive relationships is the sheer amount of power maintained by the dominant.
When in control, the dominant partner may help to direct the submissive into becoming more aware of their sexuality. They will help them to uncover inner truths regarding the way that they might feel about sex, and this can result in both a long-lasting effect as well as immediate actions.
Long-Lasting Effects of Erotic Mind Control
Erotic hypnosis is a form of sexual therapy when performed by trained professionals.
Many positive and long-lasting effects are derived from this form of sexual therapy.
One might become more open and aware of who they are as a sexual being. They may uncover truths about their sexuality that they otherwise unwillingly put away, and this will lead to life-changing benefits, as nothing ever good comes from hiding from your true sexual identity.
This therapy may help relieve anxiety and tension related to sex, and with this, the desire to have sex and become intimate will grow, adding strength to relationships as sex drive is thus increased.
At the bare minimum, erotic mind control will help one simply understand sex and why they maintain certain viewpoints surrounding sex. This will allow them to further direct their sexuality in the most positive manner possible.
Short Term Effects of Erotic Mind Control
Most people, especially those involved in BDSM and a dominant and submissive relationship, seek out the short-term effects of erotic mind control.
When in the trance-like state derived from erotic hypnosis, the subject will become more prone to accepting new ideas, and the dominant can then, of course, control the flow of ideas.
This means that the submissive will be more likely to try new things in the moment, and that their prior reasonings and critical thinkings surrounding sex and what they are willing to pursue are changed for a more open-minded viewpoint.
They become susceptible to the actions that the dominant may wish to enact, and once they enter this hypnotized state, the hypnotist will begin to direct the experience in the direction that they please.
By suggesting certain things, such as something like “my voice will make you feel things you have never felt before”, erotic mind control can lead to far more pleasure (both physical and mental) for the subject. And yes, some have even reported experiencing hands-free orgasms through this incredible pleasure!
The subject is able to fully let go and become entirely immersed in the experience, as the mind maintains extreme control over how turned on we feel and how we receive the sensations of sex. Just think of how, when you don’t want to have sex but chose to do so anyway, it feels far less enjoyable than the interactions of which you are excited and thrilled to ensue. Erotic mind control aims to change this.
Erotic Hypnosis Aftercare and Advice
If you plan to practice erotic hypnosis with your partner, specifically if this is new to you, you must approach this carefully. First, begin with a conversation with your partner about why and how you want to go about this special practice, and then continue with a ton of research so that you can build understanding and confidence surrounding this subject.
If you choose to visit a professional hypnotist, especially if you are not with your partner, please ensure that the hypnotist is licensed and professional. There have been reports of instances where the erotic hypnotist takes advantage of their subject.
When practicing erotic mind control, always stay within realms that are considered safe and completely with consent.
Erotic hypnosis will also require aftercare, as the experience can be extremely draining on both the body and the mind. Draw your partner a bath, talk to them to make sure they are okay. Brew them a warm tea so that they can relax or pour them a glass of water to rehydrate. Do things that will help to bring them back to a ‘normal’ state of mind.
By taking the time to implement the right aftercare, you are further solidifying the hypnosis session and what the subject has gained from it, while also further protecting their well-being, exactly the right way in which one should approach something that is so powerful.