Although we might not all participate in crossdressing or crossdresser sex, it is still important to understand what this sexual idiosyncrasy is and why it matters.
Perhaps one day you will choose to pursue the act of crossdressing, or maybe your children will decide that they enjoy crossdressing. You might meet someone as a partner who deep down desires the clothing of the other gender.
No matter what it is, or even if crossdressing doesn’t come into your own life at all, you are enlightening yourself to yet another unique aspect of humanity’s sexuality by learning about crossdresser sex, and this will showcase to you new understanding of sexual kinks and likings.
What is a Crossdresser?
When a person wears the clothing and/or accessories of the opposite gender, they are practicing crossdressing and they themselves become a ‘crossdresser’.
Crossdressing can take place both in a sexual and non-sexual setting, and it can be a 24/7 lifestyle or something that is only practiced occasionally. There’s really no right or wrong way to crossdress!
A male who wears the clothing of a female becomes a male to female crossdresser (MtF), and a woman who engages in the clothing of the male gender is a female to male crossdresser (FtM).
Why do People Enjoy Crossdressing?
The reasons as to why some choose to practice crossdressing or engage in crossdressing sex will always be entirely unique to themselves, but there are a few major characteristics that hold true for most in regard to why people enjoy crossdressing and become a crossdresser.
Some do it simply as a form of sexual expression, or just personal or artistic expression in general; a way to express their inner feelings and personality, or even to make a statement against the world.
Often crossdressers report feeling comfort in crossdressing, meaning that crossdressing is a way in which they can feel comfortable and calm.
Perhaps you do not want to be recognized by anyone or you wish to live a second, secret life. Well, crossdressing sure is one way that you can disguise yourself and hide away from the world behind the clothes of another gender.
And then, of course, there is sexuality. Crossdressing sex is when the aspects of crossdressing follow into a sexual environment, and when the clothes of the other gender are incorporated into an intimate experience of sex.
Many crossdressers are turned on by the clothing of the other gender alone, and some are lured by the sexual pleasure that comes with this form of what can almost be considered role play.
Is a Crossdresser Transgender?
One important aspect of crossdressing to note is the fact that crossdressing does not mean that you are transgender, or that you wish to be the other gender at all, and in the end, it is actually quite unrelated to gender roles.
Crossdressers do not identify as the other gender, and they do not have body dysphoria. If they did, then they would fall under the definition of a transgender, and crossdressing does not mean that you are transgender.
Most people who practice crossdressing are entirely comfortable in their own skin, and the reasons as to why they might enjoy the clothing of another gender is not because they feel as though their biological gender is wrong.
Instead, it comes down to the simple enjoyment of having fun wearing a wardrobe that cares not about the role of male or female, and the ability to change things up and have fun with the unique experiences that can only be derived by taking part in crossdressing!
Transgenders are not crossdressing when they wear clothing of another gender because they fully identify as said gender, even if it is not biologically.
Has your partner, or does your partner, enjoy crossdressing while in a sexual setting?
This is a very common aspect of crossdressing, and many find the most fulfillment in crossdressing when carried out sexually.
If crossdresser sex is new to you, just know that it is completely normal, and that it has nothing to do with yourself in the relationship. It is personal to your partner, something that they very much enjoy doing, and not a reflection of their gender, the gender that they like, or your gender.
Crosssdressing sex occurs when one or both partners wear the clothing of another gender while in a sexual experience. Although the clothes eventually come off, crossdressing sex can act as an extreme turn-on for those who like it and a way to make the foreplay spicy, unique, and riveting.
If crossdressing sex is something that you wish to try, then the best approach is, of course, with conversation. Talk to your partner about why you may enjoy this experience, and present to them the research and reasoning as to why this is actually very healthy and normal.
Try and determine if crossdressing is something you feel turned on by doing yourself, or if you are turned on by the idea of your partner crossdressing, as this is a vital part of the conversation.
With time and talking they will begin to understand, as the stigmas behind cross-dressing are dissipating, and it is simply your job to let them know your genuine and personal reasonings for pursuing such a thing as crossdresser sex.