If you and your partner have just purchased a cock ring, you’re in for incredible sex for sure. Adding dynamic sensations and an alluring twist to your intimacy is more than achievable with these incredibly compelling pleasure devices.
Keep reading to discover how to have cock ring sex straight out of an erotic movie.
1. Use Lube
Using lube with a cock ring is important not only to keep cock ring sex safe and injury-free but also because it can feel a heck of a lot better. While a cock ring does a good job on its own, why not do everything to maximize your pleasure? A cooling sensation will increase your arousal and make foreplay more pleasant – your partner can give it a few strokes to warm up and get used to wearing a cock ring. Just remember to use a lube that’s compatible with the material your ring is made of. But if you want to be safe, it’s best to go for a water-based lube that works well with any type of toy and condom.
2. Improve your Foreplay
To make cock ring sex as pleasant as possible for both parties involved, you don’t want to rush things. Luckily, a cock ring is designed to help your man maintain an erection for a long time, so he doesn’t have to worry about rising to the task. Thanks to a cock ring, he can forget performance anxiety and focus on being in the present. Slowing things down is a good idea for you, too; learn to savor every sensation and every touch of your partner.
If he has been struggling with sexual dysfunction for some time, chances are you didn’t get a chance to explore each other’s bodies well enough yet. To make up for the lost time, try to put each other’s needs first and observe how you react to each other’s every move. If you want to make things romantic, make sure to start with a sensual massage.
While putting on a cock ring can seem like the fastest way to interrupt the flow, you can make it work by applying the lube and giving your partner a hand job while he gets ready to put it on. But remember, it has to be put on when he’s not fully erected, so it all depends on what kind of sexual problem he suffers from. If he doesn’t struggle with getting hard, he can always put the ring on before you begin the foreplay. Lastly, if you have a vibrating cock ring, remind your partner that grinding is the key to your pleasure as it allows maximum contact with the clitoris. Keep on reading to find out which sex positions work best.
3. Practice Mutual Masturbation
For men who experience sexual dysfunction, experimenting with a cock ring might be like learning about their bodies all over again. This is why it’s important to take things slow and go back to the sex life you had gradually – your partner might learn new sensations along the way and discover more enjoyable types of stimulation.
If your man’s confidence is low because of problems with getting hard or staying hard, you can incorporate a JOI (jerk-off-instruction) into your play. For those who don’t know, it’s a role play in which you tell your man how to masturbate, encourage him, and comment on his penis. Be sure to put a lot of emphasis on the last one and compliment his junk a lot – tell him how big it is and how hard it looks and that you can’t wait to feel him inside – you get what I mean.
Additionally, as a cock ring makes his penis more sensitive, make sure to start a hand job with delicate movement and build up to it. Have him mirror the movement and rub your clitoris while keeping eye contact. A sensual blowjob will also feel amazing, so don’t skip that step – show him some love!
4. Try Edging
Since a cock ring interferes with the blood flow and puts pressure on your partner’s penis, it allows him to last longer. This is also a great opportunity to try incorporating edging into cock ring sex. Edging is a technique where a person brings themselves close to orgasm only to stop and have a break, then go again. This practice can significantly increase arousal and result in a more intense orgasm. If your partner struggles with delaying orgasm, combining this technique with a cock ring can be a massive improvement. You can incorporate it into mutual masturbation or try it out during intercourse. You can make your partner pull out whenever he’s close and resume the activity after a few seconds.
4. Pair it up with Sex Toys, and don’t be Afraid to Experiment
While a vibrating function and patterned surface will contribute to your pleasure, you can always go a step further and spice things with more sex toys. The options here are endless: you can use a butt plug to intensify your orgasms, get nipple clamps to stimulate all your erogenous zones, or rely on a good old vibrator for a guaranteed climax.
Since a cock ring will likely significantly improve your partner’s satisfaction, don’t hesitate to buy yourself a gadget that causes the same breakthrough in your sex life. Sure, as your partner’s confidence increases, so will his skills, but you can always treat yourself to something a little extra. For example, you can try a vibrating dildo to experience double penetration or a butt plug that prepares you for anal penetration.
Additionally, you can give role-play a go. Whatever works without a cock ring works when a cock ring is involved; if you’re into being submissive, take on the role of a student while your partner acts as a teacher. If you prefer being dominant, be sure to purchase some handcuffs.
5. Try out Different Positions
To get the most out of a cock ring fuck, get yourself a vibrating cock ring and opt for sex positions that allow for the ring to come in contact with your clitoris. For example, a cowgirl position is one of the best options here as it allows you to rub your clitoris against the ring every time your hips move down. If you want to prolong the sensation, you can always straddle your partner and move your hips back and forward. Combine both of these movements, and you’ll have a recipe for a very satisfying orgasm.
Another great position is lap dance, where a cock ring stimulates your clitoris and vibrates against his shaft at the same time. If you make movement minimal and embrace your partner, you can rub your body against the ring and control the pressure for intense sensation. It will tease you just enough to maximize your arousal but not enough to come so you can prolong the pleasure and wait for a big finale. And let’s not forget the good old missionary – keeping your partner’s body close to yours will help press the ring onto your clitoris. Every position that allows you to face your partner should be a good place to start.