Even if you’ve never used a rope before, Breast bondage is a fairly common feature in BDSM. It sounds hot and sometimes painful and complex, but it’s often fun, more comfortable, and easier to tie up a partner (or have one to tie your breasts!) then you might think.
Why Breast Bondage?
In Japanese bondage or shibari, breast bondage is called a shinju. A shinju can be applied to just about any woman, but it does not work well on men.
From a visual standpoint, it looks really good, which is why so many bondage photographs feature this type of bondage.
Rope bondage can be intricate and beautiful. Even basic breast bondage enhances the breasts by wrapping them with rope to lift and separate them. Breast bondage leaves the breasts open to stimulation, but not limited to, sucking, massaging, and nipple pinching.
Nipple clamps also work with breast bondage. Accessible breasts can also be whipped or slapped for those who enjoy an added roughness to their sex. These more extreme types can cause breasts to swell and darken, which some people actually like.
The sensation can be anything from pleasant to painful for the attached person, depending on your preference.
It could be a spectacle or power for the dominant or a means of inflicting torture and punishment.
Being strapped to a rope can be invigorating and exciting. Some people also find it relaxing that someone creates a piece of rope art around their body, and it can be quite intimate for someone to tie.
Most people don’t talk about nipple clamps when they think of breast bondage, but it technically matters. Nipple clamps are a form of bondage that can be less intimidating for some people, and you can use them if you’re into light bondage or nipple play. However, you can also add a pair of nipple clamps along with other breast bondages.
Essentially, a nipple clamp clamps your nipple. There are several types to choose from, including clothespins, tweezers, clover, and magnetic tweezers. Some have a connecting string that you can pull or add weight on for added stimulation, and others even connect to a chain with a clitoral clamp.
Nipple clamps can be fitted from snug and light to quite uncomfortable, and in the more uncomfortable settings, they can be used as torture devices in certain scenes. For some people, this pain can be a treat.
BREAST BONDAGE TUTORIALS
This is a simple Breast Bondage tutorial:
The bondage presented is executable with all kinds of ties: rope, of course, but also string, leather laces or cotton.
It is often easier, in an effort to tie the breasts, to use ties that are thinner than the usual bondage rope, especially when it comes to small breasts and beginners.
– Fold the rope in half to create a ring.
– Place the rope at her spine above her breasts.
– Pass the rest of the rope around her body over her breasts, bringing it back into the hollow of her spine.
– Thread the two pieces of rope through the loop, tightening the loop if necessary.
– Pull the rope in the opposite direction (creating a loop around the loop) and make another loop around her body under her breasts.
– Thread the rope through the middle by pushing it under the strip you just created and pulling it through and in the opposite direction of the loop.
– Make another pass over the top of the breasts, returning to the lump in the back.
– Tuck the ends of the rope under the loop you just created and pull up.
– Pull the two pieces of string over one shoulder, move forward, and pass the ends of the string under the top layer of string.
– Pull the rope down and pass it under the band under her chest.
– Pull the rope and pull it up. Wrap the ends of the rope under the vertical strap you just made.
– Pull the ends from the side, then fold them over the strap.
– Thread the ends under the band above the breasts and pull the rope up.
– Pass the rope over the other shoulder to the back.
– Pull the strings down the middle and through the loop with the ends pulled toward you.
– Create a simple knot by pulling the ends around the base of the ropes that go over the shoulder and pulling it through the loop you just made.
ROPE BONDAGE TIPS
– Go slowly, especially when learning new knots and patterns. You don’t want to entangle your rope or twist it. It can be uncomfortable for the attached person.
– Almost all harnesses involve folding the rope in half to create a loop.
– The loop is just a loop where it is folded.
– Keep the tension on the rope so that the harness does not become too loose. This is also important when you release breast bondage. Otherwise, your rope will fall into a loose tangle. After removing the rope, there may be marks, but there should be no bruises. The extremities could hit you or your partner, which could cause injury.
– If you have excess rope, you can let it hang loose, add decorative knots, or strengthen your rope harness.
Does that sound complicated?
Breast Bondage Security Rules
For those who would like to get into bondage, you should know that an apprenticeship is necessary because it is a dangerous game.
Scissors capable of cutting ties in an emergency should always be on hand. Always protect the partner’s skin when pulling long lengths of ropes to avoid hurting the skin, and keep an eye on your partner’s hands and feet. If they turn white or blue, it is a sign that the ties are too tight and that they must be undone.
Tingling or numbness is a sign that the blood is circulating poorly and should also lead to undoing the binding and rubbing the limb(s). Never tighten a tie on the neck. The risk would be to strangle her/him.
If you are going to use it for suspension, make sure the bottom strap is not too low. You should not use it only around the lower ribs; the ribs in the center and upper chest are much stronger and can safely support a person’s weight.
If you tie up a fuller body – it doesn’t matter if its muscle or fat – you need more support, otherwise, it will quickly become unbearable, so add extra bands to the upper and lower straps. Instead of stopping with 2, add 3, 4 or even 5.
Let us not forget that it is the submissive who takes the risks, and will then live her whole life with the consequences of the actions taken by the Master. The majority of the Masters will slip away as soon as the submissive “will no longer be in good shape”… The submissive has to worry about her health and stop everything if the Master is irresponsible and takes risks, which is not easy due to the Master’s ascendancy over the submissive. Safety words are there for that, so make sure to implement them.
The use of a “safety word” before opening the game is essential. It is used to define the situation without having to use words which, in a situation of constraint, can lead to misunderstanding (it is difficult to know if “no” genuinely means no”).
A frequently used system is the “traffic light” method in which “green” means “Yes, I’m fine. Keep going and increase the intensity “; ”Orange “ means”Watch out, slow down”; and “red” is a strong and firm signal to “Stop!” Stop immediately! “Whatever the safety word is chosen, it must be very clear to both partners.
Duration
The duration of the sessions is very variable, from a few minutes in very strict positions and/or for a beginner, to several hours in positions easier to hold and/or for those who are experienced. Always remember to hydrate the attached person regularly.
NEVER FORGET that after orgasm, the fantasies vanish, the adrenaline drops, and … everything will be very painful. It is, therefore, necessary to undo very slowly and very gradually the clips and ropes and implement the correct forms of aftercare.