Are you struggling to orgasm, or looking to have more mind-blowing, intense orgasms? Achieving the elusive orgasms can feel like a task sometimes, but there are a few ways to make them much more attainable! 

There are things that you and your partner can do to get this intensity. Read on.

How to have more intense orgasms?

Sex affects your hormone levels – but so does cuddling and kissing. 

If you aren’t cuddling regularly, your solution may be as simple as making time to do that. Intimacy is more than just sex, and intimacy creates a strong emotional bond. When you have that bond, your body is much more relaxed during sex and more likely to allow for a full release. 

Cuddling and kissing can also aid in releasing oxytocin, which is the hormone that plays a huge role in sexual encounters. So next time you feel like watching Netflix, why don’t you guys love up together and cozy up under a blanket?

Abstain from sex temporarily.

This may sound crazy, but allowing yourself to feel some sexual frustration and tension can make your orgasms even more mind-blowing! Try to build up that desire by touching each other without actually completing the act, and wait at least one day. The longer you go, the more sexually anxious you may become. When you finally do have sex, the release will be that much more intense.

Don’t forget your clitoris!

Clitoral play stimulates some pretty intense nerve endings, which can really amp up the turned on feeling. Penetration alone is not always the answer to cum. Try out a clitoral sucking toy, or use your fingers to rub it while you ride your partner. These sensations can intensify your orgasm incredibly. 

Speaking of sex toys…

Adding a sex toy in to your bedroom is always an exciting experience. From thrusting dildos, clitoral suckers, rabbit style vibrators, and everything in between – the options are endless. Vibrators can be used internally and externally, and might add that “oomph” that you’ve been searching for and lead to intense orgasms. 

Period sex.

Many women experience a higher sexual drive immediately before and at the start of their period. If you do as well, try a combination of abstaining from sex for a day, focused around this time. The sexual tension coupled with the higher drive may lead to an incredible orgasm, so don’t rule out your period and the way it affects your sex life. 

Lubricant is a game changer.

The wetter you are, the better it feels. Even if you’re naturally wet, using lubricant is a great way to prolong sex since you don’t have to worry about getting dry down there. You can even couple lube with your sex toy to make it even easier. Lubricant is especially important if you’re considering any form of anal play or anal sex as well. Good anal lube contributres to phenomenal intense anal orgasms.

Take your time.

You shouldn’t feel rushed to get off. Whether it’s foreplay or sex, make sure to take your time and enjoy the experience. No one wants to feel like they’re being pressured to cum as quickly as possible. When you and your partner are engaged in foreplay, make sure that you’re fully wet. Drag it on, and enjoy the sensations that each other’s body provides. That way, you build up anticipation to actually get to sex, and you are halfway to the orgasm point anyway!

Try BDSM For Intense Orgasms.

Removing the use of your hands, or your sense of sight can be a very tantalizing sensation. Your senses are amplified, and your body is tingling, anticipating anything that your partner may do. Many women and men find that light BDSM is a massive help in their sexual lives, as it also prevents bedroom boredom.

Tell us – have you tried any of the above methods to intensify or reach orgasm? What has worked for you? How have you achieved those elusive intense orgasms?