Being erotic in the bedroom allows you to fulfill some of your mind’s deepest and dirtiest desires, the pursuit of this erotica alone satisfying your urges as you learn new things about your sexual self and what erotic sex positions really turn you on.

This pursuit can vary so greatly depending on who you are and what you wish to experiment within a sexual setting, and that is part of why it is so fun, the fact that there are so many ways in which you can add a little spice to your love life; from light BDSM to the sexy addition of kinky sex toys and anything in between.

Sometimes the classic tried and tested ways of doing things are often the most reliable ways to go about something, and it is important to never underestimate the power of erotic sex positions. Sex positions act as the basis for discovering new pleasure zones within yourself and the things that make you shiver with orgasm-induced excitement.

So we want to showcase a few rather enticing, and very much erotic sex positions for you to try, because it doesn’t take much to really add an element of kinky allure to your sex, and they are excellent ways to keep a love life healthy and satisfied. 

Erotic Doggy Style With Toys.

There’s a pretty agreed upon consensus that doggy style is one of the most enjoyable, feel good, and sexiest of erotic sex positions to exist. Between the perfect angles of penetration and the easy ability to thrust, doggy can lend for some serious sensuality.

But all it takes to make this sex position just that much hotter, that much more invigorating; is to use sex toys in addition to your partner for feelings that will shake your soul from the inside out. 

Doggy style with a vibrator is an excellent place to start. Clearly one of you will be busy with penetration, so your best bet for vibrators is one that is meant for clitoral stimulation and not penetration, like a wand vibrator. 

When on all fours, either one of you can be deemed with the task of putting the vibrator to work, and the open-angle of the clitoris in this position makes it really easy for you to play around simultaneously to the pleasures from your partner.

And ahh, in terms of being erotic, then it must be mentioned the depth of what can be derived from this very term when you decide to add any form of butt play to doggy style. Doggy style is the sex position of all sex positions to combine anal play with vaginal stimulation, as the arch and angle of the body are one of the best for comfortable anal. 

There’s no bodyweight pushing up against the vagina and butt to create an uncomfortable pressure, and both the sensations that result from and the sheer pleasure in providing anal play with doggy are guaranteed to excite. 

All it takes is an anal specific sex toy, such as butt plugs or anal beads, a lot of lube and patience, and you can master this erotic sex position in a way that will take you to new realities of what it means to feel pleasure. 

Erotic Cowgirl Roleplay.

Cowgirl is a common and well-loved sex position because it simply feels amazing. And because of its general popularity, some might not necessarily consider it to be that erotic. But with a little creativity and manipulation, regular cowgirl can go to erotic cowgirl really quickly. 

A fun and dirty way to make cowgirl a little bit more erotic is to add some ‘flashing’ role play to it. As the woman rides on top, try bringing her back into more of an arch, pulling the chest closer in and the butt more pronounced outwards. 

Gently pull the sheets over to conceal her skin, first starting to rub the cheeks from the outside of the fabric. Slowly begin to reveal the upper portion of the butt by pulling them ever so carefully off, beginning with just small flashes and increasing the amount of skin shown as the intensity increases. 

Soon enough the urge to reveal everything will win over and you can show it all, which can be especially kinky during the climax.

Of course, you must both be comfortable with this idea of role play, but remember, it is just role play, and it allows you to explore things in an imaginative setting that might turn you on, but that is also safe and in the intimacy of just yourself and your partner.

Standing Sex – Standing Where You Shouldn’t.

Standing sex can be tricky, but when you communicate and do it right, it can be one of the most enjoyable and erotic of sex positions that you and your partner can try. But the fact that you are standing means that you do not need a soft place to lay down, like the usual bed. 

This allows you to experiment in places where you never before thought to have sex. Any room in the house, any spot you so please. And if you really want to make this sex position more erotic, add a certain degree of spontaneity to it. When in a room where sex isn’t usually associated, initiate your intimacy out of the blue, and work your way into the standing sex position. 

It’s going to take a little flexibility, but have the woman stand in front and bend forward with a straight back, the other partner grabbing both arms. This acts as support, but also adds a touch of dominant behavior to it that ups the erotica. 

If you start to get tired, you can move up against a wall, but the fun can be in the pain, so enjoy the pure pounding that this erotic sex position allows for while standing in a place where you shouldn’t be having sex. 

Because the change alone will add a nice degree of variety to your love life, and when topped with a sex position that feels amazing, the experience is one you will surely wish to replicate again. 

Standing Reverse Cowgirl.

This sex position is probably one that you don’t think about trying often, and it has just a touch of dirtiness and kink to it that deem it perfectly erotic for the next time you make love. 

In standing reverse cowgirl, the male will sit on a low seating armchair, couch, or another similar setup. The woman will stand over his legs as he leans deep into the chair and spreads them out wide, adjusting the positioning based on height. 

The goal here is to make it easy for the woman to perform small squats that provide the g-spot with some one-on-one time, and although it might take a little leg burn, there’s a good chance you won’t want to stop once you get going. 

If you really want to make this position shine, then add a vibrator to the mix to allow the woman to pleasure her clitoris while riding exactly in the ways that instill goosebumps along the skin. There’s plenty of butt play to be had here, and a rather excellent view, so don’t forget to add a little spanking and grabbing as she rides. 

The male can also use his low seated body on the chair to thrust as well, so don’t worry, the workload can be evenly split, and both of you will equally enjoy this orgasm-inducing position.